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Old Oct 19, 2013, 04:51 AM
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My T has started a new thing with me where she has me email her an update everyday. I'm supposed to tell her something I've done for myself (to keep me accountable and motivated) and also update her on what I'm feeling because it helps her understand my thought process and it helps relieve my isolation. Would it be weird if I sent her photos I took with my friends today?

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Old Oct 19, 2013, 05:14 AM
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Sounds good to me.
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Old Oct 19, 2013, 05:34 AM
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Self-explanatory. Do it
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Old Oct 19, 2013, 02:10 PM
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Sounds like a great idea
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Old Oct 19, 2013, 03:38 PM
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I think that's a great idea, if she is happy for you to email, I'm sure she would appreciate that
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Old Oct 19, 2013, 08:24 PM
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Definitely do it! My t loves to get pictures
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Old Oct 19, 2013, 08:35 PM
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Lucky you, my T discourages email.
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Old Oct 19, 2013, 08:43 PM
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Sounds like you have a great T! I think sending pictures is a very good idea.

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Old Oct 19, 2013, 09:29 PM
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Do it. T completely skipped over a few emails just to click on my attached photo lol. I'm sure your T would love it!
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Old Oct 19, 2013, 11:14 PM
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I don't want to scare you but I would advise you very strongly to talk to your t about boundaries. I know that the idea of sending a daily update sounds great, and I'm sure your t would love to get pictures from you. But this sounds all too familiar to me. My ex t was exactly the same way- encouraged daily emails, texts, etc. It made me feel so much better to know that she was always there. Then I was admitted to a hospital because my issues got so bad. The professionals there terminated my relationship with ex t because of "bad boundaries". It's been a really really rocky time since discharge. I don't want anyone else to have to go through the same thing. So I just want to advise you to talk to your t about boundaries.
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Old Oct 19, 2013, 11:21 PM
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My T likes to see photos that I email, though sometimes I show her them straight from my camera before I put them on the computer. It helps a T to see photos of people we talk about, I think. If your T is happy with daily emails, she'll probably be happy with the photos too.
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