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Old Feb 04, 2014, 09:05 PM
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We've probably all had them: those sessions where you feel like you didn't connect, talk about anything important, and leave feeling a little bummed at the "wasted" time. I'll bounce back - actually, our last session was amazing, the best yet. I think I'm just tired. Even he noticed it and asked me if I was feeling ok :YAWN: I think I'm going to bed! Anyone had a session like this recently?
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Old Feb 04, 2014, 09:10 PM
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Yeah, I have them about once a month. It is normally a good opportunity to have a break from trauma, and we have a lighter, calmer session.
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Old Feb 04, 2014, 10:13 PM
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Yes! I totally have those. I don't mind the "light" sessions so much as sessions where I feel we aren't connecting or both missing the point of what the other is saying.

I had a particularly blah session on Monday, in fact!

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Old Feb 04, 2014, 10:51 PM
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I rarely have any other kind. I thought they were the norm.
The woman rarely,if ever, seems to understand what I am talking about. The few times she does, the next appointment is a disaster so it seems better to me not to have the exceptional ones - that way the woman is more predictable. She is rarely consistent.
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Old Feb 04, 2014, 11:03 PM
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It happens. I've had many therapists and I've found that the better ones will usually have less of those sessions. But nonetheless it will inevitably happen with all therapists. Just consider it a bonding-through-the-awkwardness experience.
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Old Feb 04, 2014, 11:10 PM
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TODAY! We had some good, intense sessions last week and just yesterday I was thinking that our deep connection seems to have gotten even deepen. Then today was yawn... odds and ends, discussing coverage while she's out of town, my difficulty getting off a med, and poof, it was over. I feel OK about it having happened at most levels. I remind myself that the blah sessions are those that make the awesome ones stand out.
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Old Feb 04, 2014, 11:26 PM
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I'm in a getting to know you getting to know me thing had first session with t3 last week, it was interesting I was trying to dissect her like a project .

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Old Feb 04, 2014, 11:58 PM
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I hate those type of sessions. The worst thing is, they tend to happen when you desperately need to connect to them and when it turns out blahhh you feel cheated.
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Old Feb 05, 2014, 02:54 PM
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I rarely have any other kind. I thought they were the norm.
The woman rarely,if ever, seems to understand what I am talking about. The few times she does, the next appointment is a disaster so it seems better to me not to have the exceptional ones - that way the woman is more predictable. She is rarely consistent.
Is it possible for you to get another T? You need the understanding and support of your T and if you're not getting that, I dunno, it's not good for you. Judging from around the forum there're a number of amazing Ts around.
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