[Daeva]

Seriously, the last time I saw my T was a week before I moved in here. That's been exactly 18 days. EIGHTEEN DAYS. I'm going a bit nuts! Move me in here with 30 strangers and then not see me for 18 days?! ;-; she was only on holiday 3 days. But she is working in her other office.

Now I have waited PATIENTLY for my appointment tomorrow. UNFORTUNATELY my college closed today for a snow day which is where I see her and if the college is closed obviously she doesn't show up. WELL apparently we're going to get even MORE snow tomorrow, and even if the college is open the transit bus may not be running which means no way up there ;-; And no seeing T </3

I swear to god if I don't get to see my T I will SCREAM and cry. Really cry.

Daeva, now that the holidays are finished, will you be having group therapy or anything "in house" besides your T sessions?

Gosh, that is so frustrating and more than a little disappointing. Could she at least do a phone or skype session?

[Daeva]

No. The house doesn't do counselling, they're just here to make sure you do your chores and to give you your meds and make sure you are alive, and not fighting. Basically they baby sit you. There is no other counselling other than your T

[Daeva]

No she doesn't do that. Her boundaries with skype/computer stuff. And she doesn't like phone sessions and I can't do that anyway since we are only allowed 10 minutes on the phone

[granite1]

wow holidays suck .I get it .it will be 21 days before I see my T because of these useless holidays .I would be annoyed if it snows Tuesday. here's to no snow

[Daeva]

The school is CLOSED MOTHER****ERS

[Asiablue]

Can she come to you??

[Daeva]

No, she doesn't do that. It's against her boundaries. She has very good boundaries. I have no way of reaching her anyway, the only phone number I have is her office at the school, and that she won't get until she's back in the office. All I can hope for is a phone call from her today but I doubt it, cause she refuses to call patients on any phone but her office phone.

[Daeva]

Now I havew to wait another two weeks or more to see her which will make it a month which is not ****ing fair but thats life for you. It wouldn't be so bad but like I said I moved in with 30 strangers and it's been a HUGE adjustment, cause it's like a psych ward but you can leave in the day (You have to fill out a paper detailing where you're going and what you'll do, get someone to do your chore and turn it in to get permission to leave 3 days ahead of the day you want to go, that's for anything, even to go to the store acfross the street). ANd I haven't seen her since a week before I moved in here now It'll be a month and I just am going to scream

[granite1]

why do you have to wait another two weeks .is she not at work Monday. maybe if you give her a call she could fit you in. or does she not do make up sessions if your session is canceled by something beyond your control. I hope she will be able to fit you in

[Daeva]

She's at work monday but she sees her clients scheduled that day, and if you miss an appt you got to book one like you would normally which means in two weeks time. I can't call till monday which I will.

[granite1]

im glad you will call on Monday and hopefully she will understand and try to fit you in.it is a long time and especially with all the changes you have been dealing with .

[Daeva]

Thank you <3 I'm just throwing a temper tantrum XD I wish I had some chill pills

[dizgirl2011]

My T has been off sick for almost 5 months now, it has been horrible even though I have survived. I know its really really hard to wait, I hope you get to see your T soon!

[granite1]

it is all good if you need to vent .it is frustrating .

[Daeva]

So the head boss here called my T in order to tell her what I need, (New scripts and a pdoc appt.) so my T said she'd get a hold of my pdoc and get both done for me and have the script in the pharmacy by tomorrow or sooner if possible. However apparently I didn't wake up when head boss tried waking me so I missed my chance to talk to my T for like ten minutes and reschedule so now I have to wait till monday. I could just hit my head on the wall.

[Hoppery]

That ain't good. Hopefully Monday will hurry up and come. It's a good job I'm not in there with you! I'd be plotting to escape or something lol. Hang in there.

[Daeva]

UPDATE:
Just found out T isn't going to be in. She's on vacation all of next week. -_- whatever, I'm just going to sit here and cry.

[Yogix]

Daeva, first I didn't mean to thank this post I meant to hug! :::::: I can only imagine how frustrating it must be for you. Do you have her email address? Sometimes schools have email addresses of their counselors, and maybe you can send her a quick email?

How would you feel about doing that?

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[purple orchid]

Dear Daeva,
I feel your frustration and anger. Maybe it's good to scream and shout and get it all out?
I haven't seen my T for nearly 5 weeks it's too long. I'm fed up of being so dependent on them.
How long will you stay in the residential home? It must be difficult planning your time out three days ahead. Thinking of you.
Take care of yourself

[Daeva]

No there is no email, she doesn't do email, she has very strict boundaries. ALL I have for contacting her is her office phone, which she won't get until she's back in the office.

[Daeva]

I'll be here for months. It is frustrating, What was the point of taking 3 days off for xmas, going back to work for a week then taking a week off for vacation?

sorry things are so hard for you♥

[Daeva]

Thanks love <3 I just have to wait another week and 4 days