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Old Jan 10, 2014, 12:26 AM
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I have just spent most of today lying on my bed pining for my T. I feel so pathetic. I'm starting to get a little annoyed with him as I tell him about these feelings and either he doesn't respond or he says we'll watch them or he says he doesn't know why I would feel like this. He doesn't seem interseted in discussing them.
Some of them are quite distressing, I feel lost.
Just wanted to get this out of my head.
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Old Jan 10, 2014, 12:38 AM
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It must have been the full moon! I kinda did too. I think my t is trying to draw me out. Its so easy to just be passive and let life go by. So i think he's trying to get me to engage with him. Cuz i feel like i dont even know what it means anymore. I can understand yearning but not actually having. They are two different animals.
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Old Jan 10, 2014, 12:39 AM
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He doesn't want to talk about feelings you are having towards him or missing him? Or is it something else? I'm sorry he doesn't seem to want to talk about it.
That's always the worst...when you need to get something out and they seem to change the subject as if they are deeming it "irrelevant" or "unimportant".


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I have just spent most of today lying on my bed pining for my T. I feel so pathetic. I'm starting to get a little annoyed with him as I tell him about these feelings and either he doesn't respond or he says we'll watch them or he says he doesn't know why I would feel like this. He doesn't seem interseted in discussing them.
Some of them are quite distressing, I feel lost.
Just wanted to get this out of my head.
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Old Jan 10, 2014, 12:54 AM
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He doesn't want to talk about feelings you are having towards him or missing him? Or is it something else? I'm sorry he doesn't seem to want to talk about it.
That's always the worst...when you need to get something out and they seem to change the subject as if they are deeming it "irrelevant" or "unimportant".
Feelings about being lost without him and some of my erotic pre-occupation with him. I think he does it on purpose to see where the feelings will go, but i think its unfair to leave me in distress. Or maybe I'm not conveying how distressing these feelings are.
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Old Jan 10, 2014, 01:04 AM
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Wow, I'm surprised he would say he doesn't know why you would be feeling that way. Surely he has to know transference and infatuation is common in therapy? I think it's messed up that he said that, to be honest. I hope he isn't playing mind games with you, because that is wrong and unfair.
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Old Jan 10, 2014, 01:06 AM
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Sorry we pretty much thrashed out the erotic feelings but they still persist and I don't know whether to bring them up again.
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Old Jan 10, 2014, 01:26 AM
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If you feel you need to bring it up again, maybe trying a different approach will help. For instance, you could ask him how to cope with these erotic feelings. You could let him know they are very confusing to you and you know they aren't real but they are hurting as if they are real, and it is disturbing your mental well-being. Maybe he will be more understanding and try to explore different ways to get through this.
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Old Jan 10, 2014, 03:41 AM
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I have just spent most of today lying on my bed pining for my T. I feel so pathetic. I'm starting to get a little annoyed with him as I tell him about these feelings and either he doesn't respond or he says we'll watch them or he says he doesn't know why I would feel like this. He doesn't seem interseted in discussing them.
Some of them are quite distressing, I feel lost.
Just wanted to get this out of my head.
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