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I have just spent most of today lying on my bed pining for my T. I feel so pathetic. I'm starting to get a little annoyed with him as I tell him about these feelings and either he doesn't respond or he says we'll watch them or he says he doesn't know why I would feel like this. He doesn't seem interseted in discussing them.
Some of them are quite distressing, I feel lost. Just wanted to get this out of my head. |
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It must have been the full moon! I kinda did too. I think my t is trying to draw me out. Its so easy to just be passive and let life go by. So i think he's trying to get me to engage with him. Cuz i feel like i dont even know what it means anymore. I can understand yearning but not actually having. They are two different animals.
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He doesn't want to talk about feelings you are having towards him or missing him? Or is it something else? I'm sorry he doesn't seem to want to talk about it.
That's always the worst...when you need to get something out and they seem to change the subject as if they are deeming it "irrelevant" or "unimportant". ![]() Quote:
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Wow, I'm surprised he would say he doesn't know why you would be feeling that way. Surely he has to know transference and infatuation is common in therapy? I think it's messed up that he said that, to be honest. I hope he isn't playing mind games with you, because that is wrong and unfair.
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Sorry we pretty much thrashed out the erotic feelings but they still persist and I don't know whether to bring them up again.
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If you feel you need to bring it up again, maybe trying a different approach will help. For instance, you could ask him how to cope with these erotic feelings. You could let him know they are very confusing to you and you know they aren't real but they are hurting as if they are real, and it is disturbing your mental well-being. Maybe he will be more understanding and try to explore different ways to get through this.
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