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Feb 28, 2014, 03:07 AM
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Oh my! I actually told him.
I led in to it with a discussion about my thoughts around attachment and that I noticed that I have become quite curious about him in the last few weeks, and wondered if that was indicative of the therapeutic relationship becoming better. Finally after a year. Then I said, knowing that I trust you more now I trust I can tell you something without judging me too much? Of course he said. I told him he better sit down then, as he was opening a window for me and he looked at me with mock fear. He took it really well and said he understood. He also looked a little surprised and said "I didn't know I WAS google-able now". LOL. I told him to have a go himself. Of course we had to have a discussion about why I felt the need to and why now, and what I found and what it meant........siiiiiiiiigh. But I just had to do it as I was feeling so guilty. I can say that it was a really rewarding experience to be able to be that open about something that I was embarrassed, a little ashamed and guilty about. (Although I didn't tell him exactly EVERYTHING I found  ).Thank you to those of you that thought I ought to tell him.... it helped me 
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#2
Feb 28, 2014, 03:41 AM
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Quote:
 I miss him.
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Feb 28, 2014, 03:57 AM
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He is really very nice and a good T. For me to say this is huge!
He also told me.....instead of looking, why don't you just ask me? Eek! We'll try that next time ok? hahaha |
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Feb 28, 2014, 04:39 AM
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That's great, this new t self discloses but only parts that we have in common therapeutically like art and music, and scary movies, gray areas in her life ect...
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Feb 28, 2014, 05:38 AM
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I posted a similar thread (also saying I still needed to tell him why) and I still feel relieved 5 days later lol
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