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#26
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I disagree with that in several ways, RT, and especially with the claim that it is "good" in some general sense. You find it useful, I don't doubt that, but I see no reason to discuss T in my therapy hour. And if I did find a therapeutic use for that discussion, I would certainly not want it to stem from things T had not chosen to tell me. But I know that our positions are very far apart on this issue, which is fine - I just take issue with the statement that it is "good" to search for details about T's personal life, because it can be a good or a bad thing.
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I agree and it really all depends on the Therapist you are seeing, my current Therapist is very open as to questions about her personal life.
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#28
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But your T's openness to answering questions is not at all the same as gathering info behind her back. I suspect her openness is to stem your need to dig for info otherwise.
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I had googled my T before I met her - this is how I look for Ts. So how do you normally find a T - from a recommendation? I am not sure if a t who is great for someone else would necessarily be great for me as well... And here, people do not talk about it so I even do not know if I know anyone who is in a therapy...
Thus, I've googled my T, checked her official webpages, read her papers, read about her methods, checked her picture etc... If she had any personal info online, probably I would also check them but she didn't have any... Since I started seeing her, I've googled her few times to read more about her methods or when she said that she'd be teaching in Asia, I checked what her talk was about... I do not feel guilty for googling my T as I've also googled my bosses etc. and I also know that anyone can google me so I'm aware that whatever I put online, can be read by everyone - I'm fine with it and I would be surprised if any T wouldn't be okay with it... |
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It could be
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