[mel4]

ahhh my tdoc is meeting with my parents in about an hr, she is going to tell them about my use of drugs and alcohol (im a minor). i terminated therapy with her about 2 weeks ago, and told my parents it is imperative that they see her (hence, to tell them about the drugs and stuff). ahhh im freaking out, and a nice screwdriver (hey, im a teen, my drinks are simple...) doesnt sound too bad right about now.

[woods]

well im a teen too. haha and i drink from time to time too. but you probably dont want anything in your system....because ive been there. drunk off my *** and my parents came home. lol it was bad.
if your parents are anything like mine their gonna probably have a talk with you. am i right? well if you do, you might wanna be sober. just my opinion.

thats pretty cool that your telling your parents about that stuff. i do drugs and drink too. and i dont think ill ever have the guts to tell them.

[mel4]

ohhh nooo, its not my choice to tell them lol. the tdoc took it on her own to....

[(JD)]

I'm sorry you are unable to handle life without something to give you a sense of support. I'm sorry you terminated therapy. IDK how you can get out of your bad situation without outside help, and I hope your parents are caring individuals who will perhaps place you into a facility where you can't fire anyone But I wonder if they are caring, how you came to be where you're at?

Finding life can be tough, don't mess it up with drugs before you find it....

(((hugs))) Better to straighten out now, rather than live a despondent life and then figure it out. imo

[woods]

oh. hmm well that makes things differnt. well i understand now.

what? can they do that? i mean isn't every session confidential?

[mel4]

alright well, they got back a little while ago, and while my mom is visibly VERY upset, my dad started chuckling when he saw me, and said "nahh, u think that stuffs bad, when i was younger i used to be the supplier for all my friends...", yeah, and stuff like that lol.

thanks for all your kind words, they helped me while i was freaking

mel

[(JD)]

Ok hope they work something out for you

I am sorry that you have been drinking and using drugs. I know that it seems cool to you now, but it isn't.

I'm at a bit of a loss for what to say but I don't see anything funny in your situation. I hope that your parents realize that you need help as I feel that your using is a symptom of something deeper that is bothering you.

How do I know what to tell you about your life? Because I am a parent and a substance abuse counselor. Being a teenager is hard enough without screwing it up with abusing alcohol and drugs.

By the way, you need to take the F word out of your signature. I don't know how it sneaked past the software but it isn't appropriate for the forum.

I truly hope your parents find you some help and I hope you'll let us know how you are doing. I do care and I do hope that you will post again here.

Pat

[Sarah116]

Well for one you should not be drinking until you are 21 and two you should keep it to one or two drinks. Hey it is you who got you into this and it will be you who will get you out. Change is hard not impossible I know you can do it and change your life around. Just remember to think before you act! Good luck and be careful.