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[growlycat]

Did she explain why you should end???

[tametc]

Originally Posted by Mittens.

I have been seeing my T for 15 months.

I thought I was maybe getting somewhere but how wrong could I be?
Today T she said " We need to review things" which was fine with me, She then said she thinks it is probably best if therapy ended possibly after another 4 sessions I feel angry that she is doing this to me, It has took a lot for me to tell her personal stuff, I find it very hard to trust anyone and I am angry that I have let her in like this only for her to get rid of me.

I feel like screaming, What is the point in me going for those 4 sessions?
This was so out of the blue and I didn't expect this at all.

Maybe she found me difficult, I hate myself for telling her stuff.

Did she explain why? If not, are you able to ask her why?

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[growlycat]

no really you can talk about it here

That is seriously messed up. I have codependency and abandonment issues....that is beyond scary to think about my T doing that to me. I really do think your T is in the wrong here. If you are in no way a harm to your T and even if you are showing the slightest bit of progress, your T should not terminate..especially after only that long. That is basically telling you that since you are not doing things in your T's timely manner that your T is now just done with you. I'm sorry...but not only do you deserve a better T but you should let your T know this.

[elaygee]

I had a T do this to me and I was so angry/hurt. Now I have a great T. I hope you can think about this being Ts issue not yours. It sounds like she may feel something is "outside her scope" (thats what the T said to me and it was true she would be clueless with me). She would have done more harm keeping me.

[Ambra]

Termination should be decided together with the therapist, and once you feel ready for it. I hope you can talk with again your T about it: if it's like Elaygee said, please mind it's their issue/limits, really... it happened to me too and I convinced myself I couldn't even deserve a therapist, my current t is still constantly reassuring me that it's not me that make people run away.

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[Freewilled]

it happened to me too. I was told that I didn't need to continue. So I quit - for 9 years thinking my stuff wasn't important /: so I would definitely recommend you find a new T. And if you can ask your current T for a more in depth explanation for why she thinks it's not working out with her, that would prob help you. I think Ts should be very honest around this stuff so there is closure and you can take it with you - they need to be honest about their own shortcomings that have contributed to the need for termination. I'm so sorry

[Raging Quiet]

Speak up in these sessions. Make sure she hears you... if she thinks you are okay with it then she may take it as truth.

I am shocked and trying to come to terms with it, I don't even know what went wrong.
I honestly think my problems are just too much for her.

I really like my T too.

Okay I spoke with my nurse today and she said that she is going to talk to my T to keep therapy going and she said I really need therapy