We all have fantasies about our T's, but I'm finding myself having weirder ones lately.

On my walk outside the office this morning I just think about how wonderful it feels to be outside, look at all the snails from the rain, and wonder if my T notices this too. I wonder if he's half asleep taking out his trash bins in the mornings, or even what kind of clothes he's wearing while he does this. It can't always be those fancy suits, right? Haha.

I wonder if he gets angry sitting in traffic or when someone cuts him off. I wonder what his first heartbreak was like...if he cried for weeks or just got over it and did something productive with his grief; if he's had any at all.

I dunno...just stuff like that.

[Mactastic]

So basically you're wondering if he's human?

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Originally Posted by Mactastic

So basically you're wondering if he's human?

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LOL yes. Absolutely. See, I have no proof of this, really. I've never seen him outside the office. I mean, literally outside. Only indoors.

[HazelGirl]

What Mac said. He's human, so probably.

I guess I don't wonder very much because my T is very open about herself and her life. I don't feel like she is hiding anything or like she is someone different outside the office. So I don't wonder much.

Originally Posted by HazelGirl

What Mac said. He's human, so probably.

I guess I don't wonder very much because my T is very open about herself and her life. I don't feel like she is hiding anything or like she is someone different outside the office. So I don't wonder much.

My T is pretty open about a lot of stuff regarding his life, but there is still so much I don't know. Including the little things that everybody overlooks in their own life. He's even said to me that he is a consistent person and that he's the same with patients as he is in his own personal life. I don't know why I doubt him, and don't know why I have this strange insatiable curiosity!

[Mike_J]

My big fantasy about my therapist is to have a "normal" conversation with her, to be able to ask the sorts of things you would a coworker you were getting to know.

I wonder sometimes about my T's "human-ness" too. I mean I know she's human cuz she's made mistakes and admitted to them and has told me some things about herself as they related to what we were talking about at the time. But here lately I get the distinct feeling that she can never "turn off" the T persona. I don't know why I think that.

[RTerroni]

Originally Posted by Mike_J

My big fantasy about my therapist is to have a "normal" conversation with her, to be able to ask the sorts of things you would a coworker you were getting to know.

Who's to say that you can't do that

[sailorboy]

I always wonder what T likes to eat. I love food so maybe that's just my issue.