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Old May 15, 2014, 08:27 PM
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After last weekends issue with me buying her a gift card and subsequent emails T said things were find and we were fine. I thought it was because she understood my thought process as to why I did it or whatever. We very briefly discussed it tonight at the very end of our session. She thanked me for the lovely card and gift. She told me that she wasn't worried about MY boundaries. She had questioned if SHE had done something wrong. We do have looser boundaries than a lot of therapists/ clients. So she had questioned if she had crossed to far over which made me feel the need to buy her a gift..

Made me realize that I do have a great T who doesn't put the blame on me but questions her own methods.
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Old May 15, 2014, 08:28 PM
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I think that if she is OK with and than that's all that matters, as most people know I object to most boundary lines.
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Old May 15, 2014, 09:12 PM
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I think that's great. One of the things I really like about my T is that when I have a complaint or a problem, she owns up to her part in it.
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Old May 22, 2014, 03:50 AM
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I don't think it is healthy for a T to be too sure.
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