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Jun 13, 2014, 06:42 PM
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Guys, I really don't know what to do or say to T when I see her next week. I am too afraid to lose her, yet I want her to let me go. Why did things have to get so complicated between us? I don't think I will ever heal from this relationship.
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Jun 13, 2014, 06:46 PM
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Sorry, I must have missed the story, but so sorry for what you're going through. It's obviously painful!
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Jun 13, 2014, 07:36 PM
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GenCat, you can heal. But it starts by finding a T who isn't continuing to hurt you.
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Jun 13, 2014, 07:43 PM
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Sorry gencat, therapeutic relationships can be so complicated at times, as hazelgirl said, you can and deserve to heal. Therapy and your therapist is the on place where we all should feel safe and the most comfortable, that is one we settle in.
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Jun 13, 2014, 09:31 PM
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From what you have posted, your therapist seems to have an unhealthy attachment to you. I don't say this to scare you, but so you can be prepared...I think your therapist will make it very hard for you to let her go. She might try to rationalize her own behavior (as she has in the past), tell you this is "resistance" and a sign you need to keep working together, tell you you are still "not well", etc., etc. She might feel abandoned and want to take it out on you. I hope I am wrong. Remember that as a client, you have the power to walk away if this is what you want/what you think is good for you (even though it is extremely difficult and painful). Best of luck. Trust your instincts. |
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