[Bells129]

What are your thoughts on why you have it? And what about them do you feel attracted to? I feel extremely sexually attracted to my T, but I never have had these feelings for any other women in my life. She's not particularly conventionally attractive, but there's something about her that I find attractive. Maybe her voice...she has a really sensual and well spoken voice. And her smile...and her kindness and intelligence. AND I think she might be a lesbian, so in my warped mind I have more of a chance which definitely adds to the attraction.

[CANDC]

Some people exude a loving compassonate spirit that is very enticing. It is difficult to separate our need to be loved and cared for aand our passion to be "in love" with someone. It is interesting how professionals keep their professional demeanor and distance and don't usually fall into the trap of passion, at least most of the ones I have been involved with.

I think we're all capable of bisexual relationships. Having someone nature you can bring on such feelings.
But, if we actually play the tape forward a bit more and actually engaged in a sexual act with same sex T's, I think we'd soon find out that fantasy and reality are 2different things.

[sailorboy]

I think anytime you have very intense feelings for someone your brain confuses it with sex. There's studies showing that physical attraction is present in most close platonic friendships. Don't worry so much about it but talk to your therapist about your feelings.

[Bells129]

Thanks everyone, lots of really interesting opinions on this.

[Soccer mom]

I've also read it could have to do with not getting what you need as a child from your mother.

[glitterrosez89]

Originally Posted by _Mouse

I think we're all capable of bisexual relationships. Having someone nature you can bring on such feelings.
But, if we actually play the tape forward a bit more and actually engaged in a sexual act with same sex T's, I think we'd soon find out that fantasy and reality are 2different things.

I think this is probably true. I think there's a lot of truth in the idea that sexuality exists on a spectrum. Some people are really, really, really gay, and some people are really, really, really straight. Then plenty of others fall somewhere in between, although most of those people are mostly gay or mostly straight rather falling completely in the middle (what some would refer to as true bisexuality, I guess).