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Old Sep 14, 2014, 09:50 PM
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I was indecisive about scheduling a therapy appointment and finally emailed after two glasses of wine and a lot of arguing with my SO.. Now I'm so freaking embarrassed about the email... It was way too personal and also I don't even know if I want to meet and also you can see all of my defense mechanisms in it.. It's like I'm just giving myself away and blah. Wish there were a "take back" button. Mental note: do not email therapist after drinking
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Old Sep 14, 2014, 10:10 PM
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dito for "take-back" button.
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Old Sep 14, 2014, 10:18 PM
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Supposedly Gmail has an undo send feature.. I've never noticed it; could be it has to be activated:

Gmail Now Letting You Un-Send Regrettable E-Mails

There's also a variety of apps to prevent drunk dialing, text, or emailing from your phone:

How to Prevent 'Drunk Dialing' (and other assorted drunk sends)

At least you could tell your T it inspired you to be proactive about preventing doing something like that again.
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Old Sep 15, 2014, 01:50 AM
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Sometimes those types of emails are the most beneficial. I don't drink, but I have sent emails and left voice msgs while having a breakdown. Once I calm down and realize what I did, I regret it (and remember that this is why my T warns me to sleep on things before reacting...). But everything turns out okay in the end. Most of the time, it helps me go forward in therapy (depending on what I said).
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Old Sep 15, 2014, 10:07 AM
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He actually wrote me back and didn't get upset . He was very reassuring and the same old person he has always been. That makes me feel a little better. So I scheduled another appointment.
Thanks for this!
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Old Sep 15, 2014, 11:14 AM
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Yeah, I hate texting when I have a breakdown because it's always so embarrassing. But it seems to help.
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