[Sarah116]

Okay so I was going to see my old doctors then I went to the hospital am now in part hospital and my parents take me to see this doctor my teacher recommended. I hate her so much and just want my old doctors at our session today I had several outbursts and now I have to go back my parents said. Any advice? I really just want to see my old doctors and I was going to see them before I got in the hospital!

[Fuzzybear]

Hi Sarah,
I'm not sure..... but maybe try to talk to the new doctor, even though you dislike her.

Then, you could see your old doctor again later? Maybe you will get some new insights with this other doctor even though dislike her. It can happen

If you really feel you can't talk to the new doctor, then I hope you're able to make your parents understand that!

(((((((( Sarah )))))))

Why won't they let you see them, Sarah? Did they feel they weren't helping you?

[lesbo]

Hi Sarah
I feel that if you seriously dislike this new doctor then you should tell your parents you do not feel comfortable with them..... Perhaps you are upset because you had to change doctors and this is why you feel that you dislike them so much....maybe these new doctors need to have a chance to be able to help you but, if you do not like them and are unwilling to work with them then your appointments with them will be a waste of time and money.
Although it is sometime hard to leave old doctors, it is sometimes a good idea to really evaluate and see exactly how you were benefiting by being with the old doctors. If you were getting the help you needed then perhaps you need to let your parents understand that they can help you BUT, if they were not really making much progress with you then perhaps these new doctors are the answer.

[Sarah116]

Thanks everyone I really want to see my old doctors because I love them so much and admire them it is just something about them that makes me happy to see them. I really wanna see them not this new doctor. How do you think I should talk to my parents about this. You see they are a little cross because the case worker called my old doctors when I went wild at school and told them a juiced up version of what went on and my doctors flipped out and said I should be in an institution.

[nineten]

((((((HUGS))))))

[Sarah116]

I will update you all on how it goes, thanks!

[Sarah116]

It was horrible, I tried to tell my Mom I want to see them again but I freaked out and said I do not know how to say it. Today at school I had a pretty bad day. My parents found out I have been coming here and they say it is unsafe and I can't come anymore. But I am at my psychologist's offfice now and (The one I hate) and she let me on Psych Central so this may be my last post. Still hoping to see my old doctor. Much love god bless you all love, Sarah116

[sidony]

Best wishes Sarah!!!! I hope you'll be able to come back sometime!

Sidony

Hey. I'm sorry things aren't going so badly for you right now.

Are you able to talk to someone about Psychcentral? Even if you don't like the psychologist... Maybe if she takes a look at Psychcentral and sees some of the wonderful supportive posts (and sees that it is moderated in part by a psychologist) then she will put in a word for the place so you can still come here.

The might be worrying about what kinds of people you are chatting to. Whether people are trying to get money from you or meet you IRL or are giving you terrible advice... If they see that it is a good form of support they might feel differently. Maybe you could print out a thread where people have been supportive to you?

[sunrise]

Good luck Sarah! I hope you will be able to find your way back here sometime and let us know how you are doing. ((((hugs))))