[uneasy]

Hi everyone,

I am a relatively new member who is experiencing a lot of grief. I am about to loss a t-doctor whom I loved a lot. He is the nicest- not to mention- cute and single, male therapist that I have ever and will ever meet! But we were in a strictly professional therapy relationship. I really enjoyed seeing him.

His dedication and caring attitude are more than I could have ever wished for! He has made me laugh and taught me so much. I have learned so much from him. He has inspired me to want to help others.

Yesterday, he ( Mr:X) just sprung his announcement on me, that he is leaving the hospital staff after I have had him for about 7 years. I love him forever in whatever way he can accept my fondness of him! X, I am dying inside with kind love for you! I only want what's best for you but I am really suffering.

How will I go on? To see my private practice psychiatrist I must from now on drive past my t-doctor's office (X) and remember, in great pain, a wonderful t-doctor. X has scheduled in a few days, my "closure appointment."

[anilam]

After seeing him for 7yr he gives you one closure session? That's tough, sorry.

Can't you see him in his new place of work? Did he at least recommend some other professional to continue your therapy with?

[junkDNA]

dang thats hard. only one session to process this stuff after 7 years seems cruel.

[Coco3]

So sorry you're losing a wonderful T.

Why does he only offer one session for closure? I saw my T 1,5 years and had about 5 sessions for that.

Ugh. I am so sorry. This is one of the many reasons I hate therapy so much.

[gayleggg]

I'm sorry you are losing him. I know how hard it is when you find someone you can relate to and then have to find someone new. It is a shame that he wasn't able to give you more notice. It would have helped to the more time to adjust. I hope you find someone new that you can relate to.

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