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Old Jun 23, 2015, 08:53 PM
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Outside of a session where would you go? What would you do?

I would want to spend the first part of the day at the beach. The beach has always been relaxing to me. The beach along with my T's voice....I think I would be the most relaxed I have ever been. After the beach I would want to spend time shopping at the mall. I think it would be so much fun.
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Old Jun 23, 2015, 09:06 PM
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i did spend a day with my T. or maybe like 3 days. the first time it was a really hard day and not relaxing or anything like that. the other 2 days we flew to another state for a training on how to facilitate a hearing voices group. i guess thats not what u mean though. ummm, im not sure what i would do.
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Old Jun 23, 2015, 09:07 PM
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That's sweet. Mine likes the beach. I'd want to go to a movie, go for a walk outdoors.
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Old Jun 23, 2015, 09:15 PM
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i did spend a day with my T. or maybe like 3 days. the first time it was a really hard day and not relaxing or anything like that. the other 2 days we flew to another state for a training on how to facilitate a hearing voices group. i guess thats not what u mean though. ummm, im not sure what i would do.
I meant if you could pick anything where you live considering that spending the whole day with your T (outside of sessions) is pretty rare.
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Old Jun 23, 2015, 09:19 PM
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I meant if you could pick anything where you live considering that spending the whole day with your T (outside of sessions) is pretty rare.
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Old Jun 23, 2015, 09:30 PM
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I can't imagine what I why I would want to do anything with her all day. I don't think she is that interesting.
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Old Jun 23, 2015, 09:41 PM
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Ooohhh I'd totally want to do a yoga class with her...then I'd want her to meet my horses and maybe go riding if I could convince her to.
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Old Jun 23, 2015, 09:48 PM
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I can't imagine wanting to spend a whole day with him. I mean, I like the man, but our interests are completely different. He isn't someone I'd choose to spend a whole day with just for kicks, and I certainly wouldn't want to spend a whole day in session with him. The only thing that might remotely be worth doing is to drag him along with me to a day of rehearsals and performances so he could begin to grasp what I do that really makes me who I am (but I suspect that would be torture for him).
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Old Jun 23, 2015, 09:50 PM
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I just mentioned this to a friend of mine yesterday I believe! If I could have 24 hours with my T outside of session...I'd want to take her for a horseback ride, and go kayaking (we both like doing that) and go to a yoga class with her. It's fun to dream....
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Old Jun 23, 2015, 10:01 PM
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after today, maybe paintball
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Old Jun 23, 2015, 10:02 PM
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It would be fun to drag her around on vet calls
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Old Jun 23, 2015, 10:06 PM
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I can't imagine wanting to spend a whole day with him. I mean, I like the man, but our interests are completely different. He isn't someone I'd choose to spend a whole day with just for kicks, and I certainly wouldn't want to spend a whole day in session with him. The only thing that might remotely be worth doing is to drag him along with me to a day of rehearsals and performances so he could begin to grasp what I do that really makes me who I am (but I suspect that would be torture for him).
The one I see grimaced at the idea of sitting through an entire opera.
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Old Jun 23, 2015, 10:17 PM
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I think I would just want to hang with her through a day of her life. See how she is with her kids, work, etc. Maybe that would kill my curiosity. Oh, and I would end the day just sitting outside talking under the stars.
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Old Jun 23, 2015, 10:20 PM
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Is it weird that I don't want to spend the day with my T? Wouldn't that be incredibly awkward? I genuinely like my T but the thought of "hanging out" seems really weird?
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Old Jun 23, 2015, 10:25 PM
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The one I see grimaced at the idea of sitting through an entire opera.
Yup. I suspect that would more or less be my T's reaction. I would grimace it his interests also, so I guess we'd be even there.
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Old Jun 23, 2015, 10:54 PM
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He is too freaking hyper and i am too slow. We are like Jack Spratt and his wife. Maybe if he had a pedicab to haul me around in. And if he lets me sleep in. And take my naps. And if he makes dinner. And and and!!!
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Old Jun 23, 2015, 11:19 PM
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I think I would just want to hang with her through a day of her life. See how she is with her kids, work, etc. Maybe that would kill my curiosity. Oh, and I would end the day just sitting outside talking under the stars.
I love all of your ideas! That is so sweet!
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Old Jun 23, 2015, 11:58 PM
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I'm not sure about an entire day, but... I would love to sit with her in a drumming circle one time, or go for a hike in the desert.
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Old Jun 23, 2015, 11:58 PM
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Our day would probably start with doing a 5K mud run/obstacle course. My T and I are both pretty athletic, and I think it would be fun to have a little friendly competition on the obstacles. After that (and, obviously, changing into non-muddly clothes), I'd like to do my T's hair and make-up. She isn't into that stuff, but I have always wanted to give my T a make-over-- just for fun. Then, we could get some lunch and just talk. After lunch, we could go out separate ways; that's probably enough T time for one day.
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Old Jun 24, 2015, 12:39 AM
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It would involve several things which are censored out of PC, like ****ing and ****ing and ****ing.... preferably on a beach, with a lot of creepy eye contact.
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Old Jun 24, 2015, 01:49 AM
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I would just like to walk in the countryside, spotting wildlife and talking, away from other humans. That goes for both current T and T1. But with T1 there would be hugging, and sitting on the grass snuggling.
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Old Jun 24, 2015, 02:54 AM
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I'd just want to talk. Like watchermuggle I'd feel uncomfortable hanging out with her, but I'd like to talk for longer with her about things like films, books, childhood, current affairs.
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Old Jun 24, 2015, 03:19 AM
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The one I see grimaced at the idea of sitting through an entire opera.

Lol I know plenty of people like that. They roll their eyes lol

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Old Jun 24, 2015, 03:21 AM
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I would not want to spend the entire day but we do have lots of things in common do find stuff like looking at art together would be ok

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Old Jun 24, 2015, 03:44 AM
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I'm another one who wouldn't want to spend the whole day with her.
Six months ago, I would have wanted to spend my whole day/week/life with her, lots of sharing and some of what Petra5ed said ....

But now...maybe a nice cuppa in the garden, quick chat about interesting books, holidays, and that's it!
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