I adore foreign language films. I was watching a 1960's bangli movie last night, where someone interviews a 'film star' whilst he is vunrable and instead of using that interview, because she begins to emphasie with the star, for personal gain, she tears what she wrote up and sticks it in the film stars glass of water.
He, amazed, says"don't you want to keep all what you have written?"
The interviewer replys, "I will keep it in here (she taps her temple).
It reminded me of a therapy session.
The look on the film stars face that someone want going to use him for personal gain. But respected what he had divulged and was going to become a keeper of his vunrabilty.
How many Pele in life have that ability. To keep people in mind? It is a gift done properly.

[gayleggg]

If only everyone would honor people this way and keep there mouths quite about others failings it would be a better place.

My T used the personal intimate details of my life to gain popularity with women and politicians. The people he told also abused the information to make themselves look like "good" people when they are not. Everyone's ego was built up but my life was destroyed. You are fortunate the interviewer will refrain from printing your personal life. No one has the right to profit from someone else's misery. People who do such a thing are sociopaths.

[iheartjacques]

I've had to do that. I've had to keep awful secrets for people. But I figure it's not my life and therefore not my problem. I just have to keep my side of the street clean.

I think 'keeping someone in mind " and" keeping someone's dirty secrets " are 2 different things.