[Soccer mom]

I know some of you have mentioned being angry with your T. and not being comfortable with it. I went through a very long angry stage with my T. I criticized her, got angry for what she wasn't giving me, how she didn't react to me, etc. At the time I felt almost like it was a rebellious stage. She tolerated it all even though I know it frustrated her. She finally pulled me out of it.

About a month ago I read this article:
The Letter Your Teenager Can't Write You ? Emotional Geographic

I first read it since I have a teenage daughter. Halfway through I realized it was how I felt with T. I read it to her and thanked her for staying with me. I told her I never had that with my mom - my emotions weren't tolerated. I said I needed to go through that angry phase with you to know you would still be there.

Just thought I would share....

[Coco3]

Being angry with my T was very important for my development in therapy. It was a turning point. I had already come a long way, learning to trust and open up and all. But it wasn't after I became really angry with him that I felt completely accepted. He listened to me and respected my feelings. Right there I knew he would always be there for me and respect me for who I am, no matter what. That's when I finally trusted him completely.

[LindaLu]

This is really a tough and beautiful piece. It says so much. Thanks for posting it.

[XenaStrikes]

Thank you for sharing.

Wishing you the best of health and luck.