[joshuas-mommy]

I feel really angry about this. My father repeatedly touched my sexual body parts for years while I was younger. This caused me to believe that I must provide sex to anyone who wants it. I really dislike having sex and only provide it because I am required to by boyfriends whom are horny. My son's father made me have sex with him two weeks after giving birth to a child. I sometimes pee myself during sexual intercourse. This psychologist said that I wasn't sexually abused and I like to provide sex to people. I really think she is stupid and she really angers me. I am sick of her playing a lead role in my therapy. She told the hospital that I should not be permitted to have therapy sessions. I really don't like to talk about it and it was none of her business.

[Kat605]

OMG this is terrible! She has absolutely no right to say this. She's traumatizing you more. No one could make up this kind of thing the most important thing for someone who dealt with child abuse is to trust yourself and your memories and accept that it happened in order to start healing. Why anyone would deny this and then say you can't have therapy is beyond belief. You really need to find another therapist one that will validate what you went through and help you through it at a pace that's comfortable for you. Hugs.

[joshuas-mommy]

Originally Posted by Kat605

OMG this is terrible! She has absolutely no right to say this. She's traumatizing you more. No one could make up this kind of thing the most important thing for someone who dealt with child abuse is to trust yourself and your memories and accept that it happened in order to start healing. Why anyone would deny this and then say you can't have therapy is beyond belief. You really need to find another therapist one that will validate what you went through and help you through it at a pace that's comfortable for you. Hugs.

It is not traumatizing me to not have therapy. Her saying that I wasn't sexually abused causes me to feel angry. I just think that I should be able to get required therapy because I want to talk about it.

[joshuas-mommy]

My father was also very mean to me. My mom forced me to work two jobs and pay her all the money I was earning. When I quit one job, she forced me to live in my car. I then went to live at my father's house because I was homeless. My father was extremely abusive to me after I moved in with him. They said because I was homeless and my father abused me, then he must not have sexually abused me. My father slit my tires and my hood latch. He forced me to live with an abusive boyfriend because he didn't want to pay child support. My mom was getting child support when I was homeless.

I'm sorry this is happening and has happened to you. It's wrong.

[InRealLife45]

Originally Posted by joshuas-mommy

I feel really angry about this. My father repeatedly touched my sexual body parts for years while I was younger. This caused me to believe that I must provide sex to anyone who wants it. I really dislike having sex and only provide it because I am required to by boyfriends whom are horny. My son's father made me have sex with him two weeks after giving birth to a child. I sometimes pee myself during sexual intercourse. This psychologist said that I wasn't sexually abused and I like to provide sex to people. I really think she is stupid and she really angers me. I am sick of her playing a lead role in my therapy. She told the hospital that I should not be permitted to have therapy sessions. I really don't like to talk about it and it was none of her business.

she was very invalidating to you...perhaps you could switch therapists? this one is not very good at her job and she is judgemental.