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Default May 21, 2017 at 07:52 PM
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Most of those links don't work, at least not for me. The only one that worked was thenarcissistinyourlife
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Default May 31, 2017 at 08:58 AM
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Default Jun 08, 2017 at 09:31 AM
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"Hope knows that if great trials are avoided, great deeds remain undone and the possibility of growth into greatness of soul is aborted." - Brennan Manning
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Default Jun 25, 2017 at 10:17 PM
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"I’ve heard it said that shrinks aren’t simply screwed up, they’re shrinks because they’re screwed up. Where did I hear that? Why, from shrinks themselves"

How To Tell If Your Therapist Is Crazy (Part One) ? Iron Shrink

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Default Jun 26, 2017 at 10:27 PM
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https://courageousjourneys.com/uncat...-relationship/

This is the article I've been trying to find back - where it says that "During therapy the therapist holds the position of power. Once therapy is over it shifts to the client." I like how that makes me feel.
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// controlling parents keep controlling their children way into adulthood. They can’t rely on physical methods to control them anymore, but years of controlling and manipulative behavior already took its toll on the person, so usually pushing the person’s psychoemotional buttons is enough to make them comply. Guilt-tripping, shaming, silent treatment, gaslighting, playing a victim, and similar tactics usually does the work. //

https://blogs.psychcentral.com/psych...ng-upbringing/
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// controlling parents keep controlling their children way into adulthood. They can’t rely on physical methods to control them anymore, but years of controlling and manipulative behavior already took its toll on the person, so usually pushing the person’s psychoemotional buttons is enough to make them comply. Guilt-tripping, shaming, silent treatment, gaslighting, playing a victim, and similar tactics usually does the work. //

https://blogs.psychcentral.com/psych...ng-upbringing/
thanks for this QM. this really rings true for me "People who were raised in a controlling manner often develop people pleasing tendencies because they were groomed to see themselves as being below others and to put others first. They literally learned that their main function was to serve."
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thanks for this QM. this really rings true for me "People who were raised in a controlling manner often develop people pleasing tendencies because they were groomed to see themselves as being below others and to put others first. They literally learned that their main function was to serve."
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Default Jul 18, 2017 at 07:45 AM
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Study suggests depression linked to abnormal brain wiring

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Not sure what I think of this article written for therapists

http://www.continuingedcourses.net/a.../course084.php
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I found this part useful in helping me to try and understand what's happening between me and my t.

What might a therapist contribute to perverse transference love? Nothing, we hope. But let us not forget that enactment requires the cooperation of the two persons in the therapeutic setting. As therapists begin to feel the burden of their therapeutic work – especially if they do not lead a balanced, wholesome life – their anger and aggressive urges can taint their maternal erotic countertransference love. It can even disappear in the face of growing dislike or actual hate of a client (Schaeffer, 2007).
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Default Aug 06, 2017 at 02:13 PM
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This is actually a book:
Into the Darkest Places: Early Relational Trauma and Borderline States of Mind by Marcus West - https://www.amazon.com/Into-Darkest-.../dp/178220122X

It has been by far the best trauma book I've read recently that has helped to make a lot of sense in what happens with me in my therapy. I actually found out about this book because my analyst obtained it to his library (I suspect largely because of me). This book has also given me hope that the task I'm tackling in therapy (I grew up with no emotional connection with anyone, with knowing nothing about love and care, by believing that I'm completely alone in the world) is not totally impossible and it is possible to make sense of my trauma.
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Default Aug 09, 2017 at 09:09 PM
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Childhood Trauma- Your Gut Remembers...

https://www.hyperbiotics.com/blogs/r...-gut-remembers
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This is actually a book:
Into the Darkest Places: Early Relational Trauma and Borderline States of Mind by Marcus West - https://www.amazon.com/Into-Darkest-.../dp/178220122X
Thank you so much for posting about this book -- I'm a little more than halfway through it and having a real shock of recognition.
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Working with Clients' Dissociation
Some good points in this video: Dissociation = client feels a threat internally or externally. Therapist should acknowledge it, process and unpack the need to dissociate with client. Dissociative ability will never be taken away. Dissociation is usually learned very young, because a child could not physically escape a traumatising situation.
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