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#326
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Not just about doctors, despite the title, but mental health professionals in general.
Why Many Doctors Are Authoritarians – and Harmful - Mad In America |
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#327
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Those people are truly clueless and out of touch.
Read the comment about the jerk who tries to get clients to sign "boundary contracts" February Quandary: My Clients Are Asking Personal Questions!
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Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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Boundary contracts!!
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#329
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A contract about boundaries- these therapists are so far up their own hole, it’s unbelievable
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#330
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Believable.
If the guy can't handle being asked personal questions, I think he should be looking for a new profession instead of writing articles. Some of these therapists are nuts. |
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Childhood Trauma Can Make Severe Depression More Likely
Childhood trauma can make severe depression more likely, finds report - The Scotsman |
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#332
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Maybe a bit tangential, but I really enjoyed Carolyn Spring's latest blog
When safe feels unsafe | Carolyn Spring
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'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
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Quote:
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There’s been many a crooked path that has landed me here Tired, broken and wearing rags Wild eyed with fear -Blackmoores Night |
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Healing A Damaged Self
Not sure if this blog has been posted before but damn does he hit my issues with attachment, transference and desperate inner child needs from the therapist.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors. |
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#335
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Does anyone know of any articles related to avoidant attachment and therapy?
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#336
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Attachment Theory & Treatment: 4 Maxims for Therapeutic Change
and it refers to David Wallin's book on attachment in therapy here is a video that talks about how those people manipulate clients into attachment Connecting with Avoidant Clients
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Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
#337
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Therapist's metaphors
The mighty metaphor: a collection of therapists’ favourite metaphors and analogies
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#338
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I find it funny how therapist make themselves so important. In the second article Diane talks about a client who found the therapy so threatening he used to take his glasses off to keep her face a blur. Wtf, maybe he was shortsighted and didn’t need them. Don’t know why but I wanted to punch her after reading this |
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Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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#340
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Idiotic things therapists say:
‘Harmless’ Comments Therapists Said That Actually Hurt Their Patients | The Mighty
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Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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#343
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Some of those guys are giant jerks in real life.
Bessel van der Kolk and Joseph Spinazzola both fired from their trauma research institute | Student Doctor Network
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Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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At least one of them admits they are just acting:
The Performing Art of Therapy: Acting Insights and Techniques for Clinicians
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Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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#347
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This is not an article - just a horrifying thread on reddit where some of those people admit they get their "interventions" (what a load a crap) from youtube
https://www.reddit.com/r/psychothera...ions_that_you/
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#348
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Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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#350
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They lie and they act (a therapist who identified themselves as aspd):
"If you had ASPD wouldn't you not be able to see something as wrong or reprehensible? Sure, my "default" state is unable to see something as wrong or reprehensible. But years of therapy and coaching and training have taught me how to. Instead of being an innate compass, it's more of a skill to me, the same way a person learns to read or write. It's not necessarily something I feel, but it's something that I recognize *should* be "messed up" to others, and therefore I am able to ID that. Does that make sense?.......It might be helpful if you could describe your perception of ASPD, and I can help alleviate the concerns ![]() Or on the flip side, do y’all need to personally feel the schizophrenia, the OCD, or the depression to be able to effectively treat it? Nope. Think of someone with ASPD as an extreme - I don’t feel much of anything when I encounter another person, but that doesn’t mean I’m not effective at treating it. I don’t feel pity or sadness when someone tells me about their abuse or trauma, but I will try my damn hardest to make them feel better and help them process. I also work largely from a psychoanalytic orientation and it works well for me. I can easily take on that tabula rasa front."
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Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |