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How they mess with clients:
Belief may not move mountains but it can certainly produce a powerful psychological, and sometimes even physical, cure. It's been found that believing whether an antidepressant will work for you is the most important aspect of whether it will or not!(1) And more research found that depression is essentially made up of negative expectations about the future.(2) Therapists of all flavours should, I think, be expert in subtly garnering, building and focusing the hope of their clients and in this week's Clear Thinking 'How To Help Your Clients Believe They WILL Get Better' I will give you three strategies to do just that. Here's to the future, Mark http://www.ebiomedicine.com/article/...385-7/fulltext http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/1...12087/abstract __________________ Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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__________________ Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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More of their manipulations:
Five Strategies for When Therapy is Stuck __________________ Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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#326
Not just about doctors, despite the title, but mental health professionals in general.
Why Many Doctors Are Authoritarians – and Harmful - Mad In America |
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#327
Those people are truly clueless and out of touch.
Read the comment about the jerk who tries to get clients to sign "boundary contracts" February Quandary: My Clients Are Asking Personal Questions! __________________ Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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#328
Boundary contracts!!
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#329
A contract about boundaries- these therapists are so far up their own hole, it’s unbelievable
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#330
Believable.
If the guy can't handle being asked personal questions, I think he should be looking for a new profession instead of writing articles. Some of these therapists are nuts. |
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#331
Childhood Trauma Can Make Severe Depression More Likely
Childhood trauma can make severe depression more likely, finds report - The Scotsman |
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#332
Maybe a bit tangential, but I really enjoyed Carolyn Spring's latest blog
When safe feels unsafe | Carolyn Spring __________________ 'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
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__________________ There’s been many a crooked path that has landed me here Tired, broken and wearing rags Wild eyed with fear -Blackmoores Night |
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Healing A Damaged Self
Not sure if this blog has been posted before but damn does he hit my issues with attachment, transference and desperate inner child needs from the therapist. __________________ When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors. |
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Does anyone know of any articles related to avoidant attachment and therapy?
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Attachment Theory & Treatment: 4 Maxims for Therapeutic Change
and it refers to David Wallin's book on attachment in therapy here is a video that talks about how those people manipulate clients into attachment Connecting with Avoidant Clients __________________ Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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Therapist's metaphors
The mighty metaphor: a collection of therapists’ favourite metaphors and analogies __________________ Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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I find it funny how therapist make themselves so important. In the second article Diane talks about a client who found the therapy so threatening he used to take his glasses off to keep her face a blur. Wtf, maybe he was shortsighted and didn’t need them. Don’t know why but I wanted to punch her after reading this |
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#339
__________________ Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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Idiotic things therapists say:
‘Harmless’ Comments Therapists Said That Actually Hurt Their Patients | The Mighty __________________ Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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