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Sep 15, 2015, 01:02 PM
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I started with a new T. I swore I'd never see a male T but I thought I'd give it a go.
It feels like T is yelling. I want to telll him to shush. He interrupts too. I don't know if it's just that I miss old T or if my worries are valid. I think I'll go with no T for a while but I wondered if anyone else ever felt their T was loud to the point of yelling? |
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#2
Sep 15, 2015, 01:04 PM
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Can't say I have ever felt T was too loud. She also NEVER interrupts.
Don't like the sound of him at all... |
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Sep 15, 2015, 02:03 PM
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One of the many things I love about my T is that she is so quiet. She has always talked so quietly. I like it because it makes her feel more gentle and genuine. I record my sessions on my phone and she talks so quietly that I have to edit them just to hear her. Sometimes I interrupt her but she never interrupts me. I need to stop doing that.
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Sep 15, 2015, 02:08 PM
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I haven't felt yelled at but the interrupting alone would make me want to stop seeing any therapist. Or any person who interrupted habitually.
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Sep 15, 2015, 02:16 PM
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It felt like when I talk to my siblings and we all talk on top of each other but without the comfort level involved.
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Sep 15, 2015, 03:28 PM
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My ex-T used to interupt me occasionally. I talked so little I couldn't quite believe it. I think it's a major sign of mis- attunement. I'm sorry you haven't been able to find a good T for you.
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Sep 15, 2015, 05:42 PM
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Is he old enough to have a hearing problem?
Not that that would explain the interrupting. That sounds bad. |
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Sep 15, 2015, 06:50 PM
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Tell him to not do that, that's what I do with mine who usually thinks he wasn't yelling. I tell him he has old ears but that I'm not deaf.
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Sep 15, 2015, 07:36 PM
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i wouldn't see a T that shouted or interrupted me
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Sep 15, 2015, 07:42 PM
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Quote:
if he is like that .
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Sep 15, 2015, 07:47 PM
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I never had that experience w a therapist yelling at me .I had a therapist who wouldn't make contact w me .he just kept his eyes on his file that he on me . no contact no facing towards me during the session .I left him and both of my psychiatrists and the facility that they were associated with a long time ago .
Diagnosis: Anxiety and depression meds : Cymbalta 90 mgs at night Vistaril 2 25 mgs daily for anxiety prn 50 mgs at night for insomnia
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Sep 15, 2015, 09:42 PM
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My CBT T sometimes uses his outdoor voice indoors. But he doesn't interrupt
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