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Old Sep 22, 2015, 06:16 PM
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Sure, they should say the real reason. And it might well be that they don't have time, mistrust the communication value of the medium, etc. Not sure that it's about working for free - I offered to pay the one I had a lengthy administrative e-conversation with, and she declined, saying that the issue we were discussing was part of her job, even over email. I don't know how common that would be though.

(Do any therapists out there charge for emails as they do phone calls when they primarily see the client in person?)

I suppose if I were a therapist I'd want calls from those who would otherwise email; it seems like I could help better that way. But sure, I'd say why.

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My T doesn't really respond to emails. They're mostly me sending to him - either as follow up thoughts from session or for us to talk about in session. Occasionally he responds but rarely with any detail. That's fine anyhow. I'm not really looking for him to respond and if I do need one, I say so and he does.
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Old Sep 22, 2015, 06:48 PM
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T and I email back and forth frequently. Honestly I am not really worried about security. T is in private practice and I know she is HUGE on privacy and HIPPA so nobody has access on her end. On my end the only person who could get into my email is hubby but that has never been an issue as we trust each other plus hubby know at least a bit about everything T and I discuss.

I suppose somebody could hack emails and such but I just don't worry about it.
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Old Sep 22, 2015, 07:23 PM
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T and I email back and forth frequently. Honestly I am not really worried about security. T is in private practice and I know she is HUGE on privacy and HIPPA so nobody has access on her end. On my end the only person who could get into my email is hubby but that has never been an issue as we trust each other plus hubby know at least a bit about everything T and I discuss.

I suppose somebody could hack emails and such but I just don't worry about it.

Not a question of the integrity or good practice of therapist or client, but the email servers on which the messages are stored.

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Old Sep 22, 2015, 07:43 PM
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I can't think of anyone being interested in my emails enough to go through the trouble of hacking to get them. I might change my mind if I get paranoid again, but until then I'm not worried.
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Old Sep 22, 2015, 10:18 PM
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Both my therapists dislike using email to discuss therapeutic matters because of security concerns. I can understand this because the same concerns affect my jobs, which is why both my employers have a (sometimes annoyingly) high standard of email security.

Yet clearly a good many therapists correspond with their clients by email and discuss therapeutic matters. I'm wondering, if you and your therapist do this, how do you deal with the security issue? Is it not a concern for you? Do you use a specific email provider that might have better security (e.g., Gmail to Gmail) or an alternate secure method (e.g., Skype IM is encrypted)? Or are emails less direct than you would actually be in session?

To answer my own questions, while I have emailed with both of them, one was for administrative stuff, nothing sensitive, and the other was a check-in email that was terse: (her) "I just wanted to see how you were after yesterday's session." (me) "Fine, thank you for asking, see you next week." So no therapeutic topics. I plan to keep it that way because I'm more comfortable that way, but wondered how others felt. (Feel free to tell me I'm paranoid!)



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Over the 1 year I've been seeing my T I've emailed about personal matters maybe 4 times. I'm not usually concerned about it, nor is she. We do usually send Gmail to Gmail or I use her work email. I guess I've never really thought about it that much.
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Old Sep 23, 2015, 05:14 AM
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I wouldn't worry about security. My life is rather boring. Things I discuss in therapy are of no interest to any third party. In person or in correspondence. My BF, my alcoholic ex, my crazy dad, my bills, I miss my adult daughter living far. none of that is exciting to a stranger. If you discuss legal matters though then you want to think twice. Something could be used in court etc

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Old Sep 23, 2015, 01:55 PM
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I've used my work email and also my personal email to communicate with T. I've never even given security a second thought.
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