This year I have lost my support worker, Therapist and now my Mental health nurse, This is why I don't like trusting professionals.

[ruh roh]

Yes, it's painful when the person seeking help is more stable than the service providers.

[BudFox]

Originally Posted by Buttercup11

This year I have lost my support worker, Therapist and now my Mental health nurse, This is why I don't like trusting professionals.

Sorry to hear. That is rough.

[Fuzzybear]

this is so sadly true at times

(((((((((( Buttercup )))))))))))

Originally Posted by ruh roh

Yes, it's painful when the person seeking help is more stable than the service providers.

So sorry, Buttercup. The fear of losing my T definitely keeps me from trusting him fully. Hope you find the support you need soon!

[Lemonpledge]

That's what I feared the most and it happened.

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[BudFox]

Originally Posted by Lemonpledge

That's what I feared the most and it happened.

What caused you to lose your T?

[Lemonpledge]

In August I was going to tell him about a rape and I had a hard time and it never came out. He then made my appointment for September 14 for 930am which I thought was weird. The Friday before he called me and canceled. Made one for September 25. So it would have been six weeks between visits so I also asked him for the 30th of September and he made both. On the 25th I told him about the rape and while I was in his office my friend sent me a message and the picture is big and I looked at my phone and he seen the screen. We sit like 3 feet away from each other and as soon as he saw the pic of my friend which he has always insisted I should only be friends with him nothing more. That's when he started acting funny. He even ended early that day and made my next appointment for 930 October 12. I asked him. Are you making my appointment for 930 so you can call and cancel. He ignored me.. October 9th he called and canceled. Which I knew. Don't know if you read my other posts I am a psychic medium. No I'm not crazy. But I had a feeling since the day I told him I liked him he felt the same way and he didn't want to admit it because he is married. After he canceled my appointment on the 12th and broke up with me. I had an appointment the same week with new t and he saw me in the hall and kept going down the other end back and forth looking down at me. I was only one in hall.
So I think there is more to it then just not being able to help with trauma. He could have been honest with me and he could have told me in person not over the phone.
So that's the whole thing. Hope I didn't forget anything

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[BudFox]

Originally Posted by Lemonpledge

So I think there is more to it then just not being able to help with trauma. He could have been honest with me and he could have told me in person not over the phone.

Didn't mean to divert the thread onto your issues, but sorry you went thru that. I don't care if I sound like a broken record -- in the case of Ts with boundary problems who end up abandoning clients there is no oversight, no reporting, and rarely any consequences for the T. Even when things spiral out of control, most therapy dyads remain dangerously isolated and can be abruptly terminated.

[The_little_didgee]

Earlier this year my outreach worker abruptly quit. She didn't even bother to tell me she was leaving for a new job. My psychiatrist explained what happened. It should not have been that way. A notice and a final meeting would have been greatly appreciated. I liked the lady a lot. We came from the same cultural background which made working with her a lot easier, and we often talked about that.

Sometimes these workers make one feel like an object rather than a human being.