Couch 104 - The Couch Without A Catchy Title

unaluna · Dec 17, 2015, 07:46 PM

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Originally Posted by BayBrony

I really think that it is a rude and unpleasant thing for someone who only knows you from a few forum posts to suggest that your therapy in ineffective or haven't made sufficient progress to satisfy their criteria.

I have many big issues to sort through in therapy but whether I think I am making progress is up to me.

I know not everyone approves of how my therapist does things but I try not to judge anyone and to always describe my experiences as my own alone, recognizing that other people have different needs.

That was just really rude and uncalled for.

I appreciate you sharing your journey with us. But i kinda resent how it happened?

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Dec 17, 2015, 07:47 PM

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Originally Posted by BayBrony

I really think that it is a rude and unpleasant thing for someone who only knows you from a few forum posts to suggest that your therapy in ineffective or haven't made sufficient progress to satisfy their criteria.

I have many big issues to sort through in therapy but whether I think I am making progress is up to me.

I know not everyone approves of how my therapist does things but I try not to judge anyone and to always describe my experiences as my own alone, recognizing that other people have different needs.

That was just really rude and uncalled for.

Did that happen to you in a different thread?? I am so sorry.

BayBrony · Dec 17, 2015, 07:52 PM

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Originally Posted by My kids are cool

Did that happen to you in a different thread?? I am so sorry.

Yes indeed it did. I answered honestly and politely and left out the rude things I wanted to say. Its not like therapy is math homework where you can just sequentially go down the paper and check off the problems you've solved.

stopdog · Dec 17, 2015, 08:05 PM

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Originally Posted by BayBrony

Oh how I wish I had your detachment.
For me the anticipation of the break is really worse than the reality and I keep telling myself that.

Grasshopper - I can teach you the way.

BayBrony · Dec 17, 2015, 08:13 PM

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Originally Posted by stopdog

Grasshopper - I can teach you the way.

I don't think even you could make me detached. Though I am studying Buddhism and the concept of holding everything loosely as nothing is promised to us.

stopdog · Dec 17, 2015, 08:15 PM

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Originally Posted by BayBrony

I don't think even you could make me detached.

Well not with that attitude.
You have to be the detachment. Omomomom

atisketatasket · Dec 17, 2015, 08:27 PM

I feel like a freak in the opposite way - I do not miss either of mine although I said goodbye to both this week for at least five months.

I'm thinking SD won't be able to help with that.

stopdog · Dec 17, 2015, 08:29 PM

What would there be to help with?

stopdog · Dec 17, 2015, 08:43 PM

Okay - sometimes I think people are playing and they are not it can get me into trouble. I may be unable to tell right now. It may be time to go walk the dogs.

BayBrony · Dec 17, 2015, 08:48 PM

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Originally Posted by stopdog

Okay - sometimes I think people are playing and they are not it can get me into trouble. I may be unable to tell right now. It may be time to go walk the dogs.

I'm definitely playing. But I am actually studying Buddhism

stopdog · Dec 17, 2015, 08:49 PM

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Originally Posted by BayBrony

I'm definitely playing. But I am actually studying Buddhism

Thanks -I knew we were playing. It is on another place.

atisketatasket · Dec 17, 2015, 08:52 PM

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Originally Posted by stopdog

Okay - sometimes I think people are playing and they are not it can get me into trouble. I may be unable to tell right now. It may be time to go walk the dogs.

If you're talking about my thread, I was asking a real question but I didn't mind the playing at all. Carry on!

Dec 17, 2015, 08:55 PM

Did some energy work w t again this evening, it was a powerful experience and i am so grateful that she has training in this. I wasn't expecting it today but I'm always open for different stuff... It was half therapy, half energy work today. Pretty much a perfect mix.

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JustShakey · Dec 17, 2015, 08:56 PM

Most of the posts off the couch these days make my eyes glaze over. I think I'm on emotional overload and I can't process anything else. Or something. Probably just as well. If let loose on some of the overbearing whining I would be... well, you get the picture. People would be told to cop on and stfu in short order. Not very empathetic of me...

I was having a fun conversation with the eight year old earlier about my being so evil that evil is jealous of me. I've pretty much just Had It.

stopdog · Dec 17, 2015, 09:04 PM

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Originally Posted by atisketatasket

If you're talking about my thread, I was asking a real question but I didn't mind the playing at all. Carry on!

Thanks - I figured you and I could play. It is not about anyone here

unaluna · Dec 17, 2015, 10:34 PM

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Originally Posted by stopdog

Well not with that attitude.
You have to be the detachment. Omomomom

I take it thats a different school of thought from the one that goes nomnomnom

stopdog · Dec 17, 2015, 10:46 PM

Is the blinky getting an ice cream headache?

unaluna · Dec 17, 2015, 10:50 PM

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Originally Posted by stopdog

Is the blinky getting an ice cream headache?

Thats bliss. Interesting that they look the same to you... not sure what that means!

Dec 17, 2015, 10:52 PM

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Originally Posted by stopdog

Is the blinky getting an ice cream headache?

it might if it doesn't combine the nomnomnom with the omomom.....

Dec 17, 2015, 10:56 PM

i showed my t a pic this evening of me with my son, i hadn't shown her one in a really long time so she had no reference for how tall he is now. He's 6'7" and makes my 5'8" look tiny. She almost dropped my phone when she looked at the picture she goes "Oh my god! He's a giant!" and she asked "How does he feel about that?" and then she said "oh that was a very therapist type question." ha ha yes it was.

Dec 17, 2015, 10:59 PM

The guinea pigs, who are usually compliant if you give them food, will not stay still for picture taking and seem to find the draping off tinsel over them to be demeaning. So only vanilla guinea pig pics for the couch.

Ellahmae · Dec 17, 2015, 11:41 PM

Damn it all to hell. I'm a freaking mess. I'm hard work and a disaster.

Dec 17, 2015, 11:43 PM

(((Ellahmae)))

Dec 17, 2015, 11:45 PM

*offers hugs to Ellahmae*

Dec 17, 2015, 11:46 PM

the kitten is on crack or something tonight. she is ping-ponging all over the house playing with this toy and that toy and randomly leaping straight up off the floor and climbing straight up the back of the cat tree and then sailing off the top level onto the couch and batting at one of the other cats and then back to the floor and pushing a toy around and now pulling at the blanket my h is covered with.... holy toledo!! she is a bundle of pure adrenaline! I am so in love with her.

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