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#1
Dec 23, 2015, 06:02 PM
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I don´t see a T at the moment but I´m searching for a new one and I still from time to time think about my former T. Around Christmas I imagine how she spends it and I would really find it interesting to know something about it.
Have you got to know something about how your T spends Christmas? Is he/she with her family? Is he/he staying at home or does he/she go abroad? Did he/she tell you anything about gifts he/she bought? It´s that kind of time of the year I think many clients are a bit extra curious about their T:s. |
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#2
Dec 23, 2015, 06:12 PM
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Not me. I know nothing about either of their Christmases and don't care to. No. 1 was more curious about mine than I was about hers.
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#3
Dec 23, 2015, 06:14 PM
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The first one I see does not celebrate xmas as she is of a different religion. The second sort of acts like it can be a hassle.
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#4
Dec 23, 2015, 06:17 PM
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Honestly the less I know, the better.
I'm enough hurt as it is this Christmas so it's better I don't imagine how she's spending her holidays. Besides she didn't even want to tell me where she was going on vacation, except that it was on another continent (so, fancy holidays, as I had suspected). |
 AllHeart, Inner_Firefly
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#5
Dec 23, 2015, 06:31 PM
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I'm guessing he'll be with his 4 kids and 6 grandkids. He loves to cook, so I suspect he'll be the chef of the day.
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#6
Dec 23, 2015, 06:42 PM
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My t is spending Christmas with all of her kids and grandkids which is a first in a long time for her. I know what's on the Christmas day menu and who's bringing what. I've also seen a picture of her extravagant tree.
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#7
Dec 23, 2015, 06:46 PM
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My T is spending Christmas with her kids and husband and her step kids. I know a little about her plan. I try not to think about it though.
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#8
Dec 23, 2015, 06:55 PM
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My T doesn't celebrate Christmas but she's going on an exotic vacation with her boyfriend. I started a thread about it, as most of you probably know!
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| brillskep, Inner_Firefly
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#9
Dec 23, 2015, 07:00 PM
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Quote:
 It sucks to be alone and hurting on holidays. 
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#10
Dec 23, 2015, 07:04 PM
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My therapist spends Christmas with her family. she goes to church with her family or by herself on Christmas day then she spends time with her family afterwards .
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Dec 23, 2015, 07:08 PM
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Mine is a different religion.
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#12
Dec 23, 2015, 08:57 PM
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I don't know a single thing about what my therapist does or who she's with. I'm just glad she doesn't take a vacation and keeps her regular schedule.
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| Inner_Firefly
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#13
Dec 23, 2015, 09:09 PM
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Not much at all. Only thing I know is, that she mentioned off-handedly last week that her house guest had cancelled. I somehow refrained from offering my services in that capacity.
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| AnaWhitney, Inner_Firefly, rainbow8
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#14
Dec 23, 2015, 10:04 PM
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I know where she will be between this afternoon and Saturday. I asked her what she was doing for Christmas this year. She told me the various places she will be going to.
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Dec 23, 2015, 11:57 PM
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Nothing. He tells me nothing.
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#16
Dec 24, 2015, 02:33 AM
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I'm guessing my T will be with her husband and two young kids.
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#17
Dec 24, 2015, 02:47 AM
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She is vegetarian so doesn't have turkey. Her tree she made herself from wood because she's allergic to Xmas trees. That's it.
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Dec 24, 2015, 03:46 AM
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My theapist is going away (probably to the mountain side) again. I assume he does that with friends. One Christmas he mentioned his brother visiting from overseas. I don't think it's anything too special, but I know he does really enjoy going away.
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#19
Dec 24, 2015, 09:28 AM
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I imagine my T spending Christmas with her family. I assume she celebrates Christmas never asked her if did or didn't. Her family lives in another state so I know she will be traveling to probably her home state.
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#20
Dec 24, 2015, 09:36 AM
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I know enough. My t is not shy about self-disclosure. He has young and a large extended family and will be spending the holidays with them. He shares enough detail about his life that I know generally what it is like.
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#21
Dec 24, 2015, 10:02 AM
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My t is doesn't celebrate Christmas, and neither do I (for different reasons). So today is just a regular day for us. We have a session scheduled for today at noon.
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#22
Dec 24, 2015, 10:36 AM
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I never ask him anything about what he does outside session and he doesn't usually volunteer. I just hope he has a nice break.
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#23
Dec 24, 2015, 11:43 AM
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She spends it with her family, helps with the cooking, and reads a lot. That is one of the few days a year that the lady finally off totally, and relaxes.
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#24
Dec 24, 2015, 04:32 PM
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My t is spending Christmas with her family. Her daughter came home and was there when I had my session. Her other children will come over for Christmas too. It sounds like it will be a lot if fun over Christmas at her house.
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#25
Dec 24, 2015, 06:33 PM
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I know nothing. She will probably spend it with her boyfriend and daughter. Maybe they will visit her parents or his, or maybe they will spend it with brothers and sisters.
My T asked about my plans. Nothing special, just dinner with my parents. But I didn't asked about hers. I'm curious, but I've never asked about her and her life so I'm afraid she might reject my questions. But maybe it's better not to know. I'm already envy her enough. I hate Christmast time and New Years Eve. |
| Cinnamon_Stick, Myrto, rainbow8
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