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#1
Jun 22, 2016, 06:35 PM
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I feel like such a disgusting monster. My psychiatrist said that I was abusive to him. And I know that's true. How can I live with myself? This world would be better off without me.
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#2
Jun 22, 2016, 06:38 PM
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I'm thinking about it all being over. I just want to go to sleep and never wake up.
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#3
Jun 22, 2016, 06:41 PM
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Can you forgive yourself and learn from this and treat the next dr better? It starts with you treating yourself better.
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#4
Jun 22, 2016, 06:43 PM
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He is an asshole. I don't think one needs to beat one's self up because a psychiatrist can't handle that a client got attached.
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#5
Jun 22, 2016, 06:44 PM
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I loved this doctor with all of my heart. I can't forgive myself.
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#6
Jun 22, 2016, 08:09 PM
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That's ridiculous--he's just trying to make himself feel better about how he treated you by putting the blame on you. When and how did he say you were abusive to him? Was it when you talked to him recently at his office? Or have you been in contact with him since then?
You were attached--it happens all the time. His inability to handle it in a caring way is on him, not on you. |
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#7
Jun 22, 2016, 08:45 PM
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Did he give specifics? Are you supposed to comfort him now? And if so, how much will he pay you?
Sorry you are in this position. Sounds like the outcome is a reflection on him, not you. |
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#8
Jun 22, 2016, 08:59 PM
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What a jerk. It can't possibly be all your fault.
He knows how attached you are...yet he tells you something to shred your heart even further! I hope you don't have any more contact with him. He is toxic. 
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| Gavinandnikki, LonesomeTonight
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#9
Jun 22, 2016, 09:06 PM
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What makes you an abuser? Being attached even in the most unhealthy manner isn't "abuser" make. What is his rationale?
He is an idiot. My only suggestion here is to seize any kind of contact with him ( how and why did he say all this to you? Are you still contacting him?) And wait for an appointment with new t so you can start on path to recovery, hopefully. It will get better Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk |
| LonesomeTonight, precaryous
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#10
Jun 22, 2016, 09:28 PM
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If you're still in contact with him and he's saying things like this, please stop contact. If he's willing to say that, he's also willing to make a harassment complaint to the police against you.
You loved him, I get that. Would it help to think of this as like a (very bad) romantic breakup, and do the same things you would do under those circumstances to start recovering? |
| Gavinandnikki, LonesomeTonight, missbella
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#11
Jun 23, 2016, 01:55 PM
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Quote:
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Now if thou would'st When all have given him o'er From death to life Thou might'st him yet recover -- Michael Drayton 1562 - 1631 |
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#12
Jun 23, 2016, 10:51 PM
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No, he never even tried.
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