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I'm bored, and this thought just sort of ran into my head so I wondered what other people would feel about this:
f you therapist happened to come across these boards and was able to figure out who you were: What would you be glad they got to see you writing about? What would you be slightly relieved about them seeing... Something you have wanted to say but have held back a little in session? What would make you panic? - I'd be if she saw how much I do really like her and think about her. - I'd be relieved for her to see how much I struggle with attachment and how strong the attachment is -I haven't put anything on these boards, yet, that would make me panic over her knowing |
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OK this is going to sound weird but.........
I don't put anything on the boards that I don't want to see...so it would be ok if my T saw what I want to see ![]()
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Its funny that you posted this question as I was thinking this very question last night.
Monday I seen T and we were talking about good mental heath sites on the web......I mentioned a couple that Ive been on but neglected to tell him this one. It was a split second decision not to tell him.....later I thought it was probably because Im sure I was afraid of my identity revealed.......so I guess that answers your question...I think I need a confidential place to talk about things inside and outside therapy and even about therapy. |
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I have actually considered what if my T discovers me here. I have told him about the website but not its' name. He would certainly be able to discern who I was from my posts I have no doubt. Today I told him the one thing I was too embarrassed to say to him since I thought of it recently. I told him that I really really wished that on the days I cannot cope at all ... I could have an old shirt of his with his smell on it (not that I even know what his smell is actually like) to cuddle with as a kind of transitional object thingy. Sometimes it amazes me how open and honest I am with him. God bless him for always being so accepting and okay about my needing him so much. He does set boundaries ... no touching and so on... but he just lets me be whatever I am. I have always been phobic almost of needing anyone ever; this therapist has really changed my life by his unconditional acceptance and love. At any rate, he was not comfortable about the shirt thing but is in the process of contemplating what he would be comfortable with my using as a transitional object. Gosh, I just love T soooo much.
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