Attraction to therapist

Dec 12, 2016 at 03:54 PM

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Originally Posted by apsychologynewbie

kecanoe - Thanks for your advice. I am thinking I may speak to her and then if I dont feel the issues have been resolved then inform the service provider and obtain a new counsellor. But I am still trying to make up my mind.

Budfox - Thank you!

AllHeart - Thanks for your support! Yes a pros and cons lost could be the way to go. Thanks for your lovely comments too! Before all this, I did feel that we were getting somewhere. But over the last couple of weeks I feel like T has let her own issues govern the session. Yes exactly re: potentital to get a lot worse. I have got to do what is right for me and protect myself because at the moment I am worrying about this a lot and I should be focussing on getting better, not on T my own T. I will let you know how things progress ��

Ok, so I have thought about it and decided to talk to my T. But I am making it very clear I dont want to continue therapy with T until the issues have been resolved. I've typed up everything I want to discuss tomorrow and dated it so I have a written record of everything. If we can resolve these issues then that's great. But if we can't then at least I have got a record that. I may also request it is recorded so there can be no misunderstandings. Then I can say that I have attempted to sort out the problems and then the directors of the counselling service can't say I haven't tried and I can request a new counsellor. Thanks again for your help everyone 😊 I'll let you know how it goes.

AllHeart · Dec 12, 2016 at 03:56 PM

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Originally Posted by apsychologynewbie

Ok, so I have thought about it and decided to talk to my T. But I am making it very clear I dont want to continue therapy with T until the issues have been resolved. I've typed up everything I want to discuss tomorrow and dated it so I have a written record of everything. If we can resolve these issues then that's great. But if we can't then at least I have got a record that. I may also request it is recorded so there can be no misunderstandings. Then I can say that I have attempted to sort out the problems and then the directors of the counselling service can't say I haven't tried and I can request a new counsellor. Thanks again for your help everyone 😊 I'll let you know how it goes.

Sounds the perfect plan!! Good luck and def let us know how it all goes!

MBM17 · Dec 29, 2016 at 12:06 AM

Yes, let us know how it goes!

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MBM17 Veteran Member Member Since May 2016 Location: USA Posts: 572 8 10 hugs given	Dec 29, 2016 at 12:06 AM #3 Yes, let us know how it goes! __________________ Dx: Bipolar II, ultra rapid cycling but meds help with the severity of cycling. Rx: lamictal, seroquel, lithium
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