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Old Apr 20, 2017, 07:45 AM
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(((Munie))) (((QM))) (((Daisy))) (((JD)))

... (((Couch))) ...

"Hi Luc,

No problem, I will sign form etc and haven’t a scanner but can photograph the form and email it to you, and I will make sure I’ve got it to you by Monday.

Kind regards,

T"

Reply:

"Thanks so much T, you're the best!

...NO SERIOUSLY YOU'RE THE BEST I LOVE YOU"



Okay maybe not.

He didn't even manage to construct a proper sentence in that email and it still made me happy to receive it
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Old Apr 20, 2017, 07:56 AM
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(((Munie))) (((QM))) (((Daisy))) (((JD)))

... (((Couch))) ...

"Hi Luc,

No problem, I will sign form etc and haven’t a scanner but can photograph the form and email it to you, and I will make sure I’ve got it to you by Monday.

Kind regards,

T"

Reply:

"Thanks so much T, you're the best!

...NO SERIOUSLY YOU'RE THE BEST I LOVE YOU"

Okay maybe not.

He didn't even manage to construct a proper sentence in that email and it still made me happy to receive it

Glad he got back to you

(How can he survive without scanner in his office in 2017?)
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Old Apr 20, 2017, 07:58 AM
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(How can he survive without scanner in his office in 2017?)
Yeah really, tell him he needs a scanner.
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Old Apr 20, 2017, 07:58 AM
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I thought this too
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Old Apr 20, 2017, 08:10 AM
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...I'm not sure he even has a computer, I think he might be one of those people who does everything on a bloody iPad...
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Old Apr 20, 2017, 08:13 AM
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Reasons I shouldn't be in love with T:

- he can't construct a sentence properly
- he doesn't know the difference between Neil Young and Neil Diamond
- he appears to be an apple fanatic
- he wears really boring socks
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Old Apr 20, 2017, 08:19 AM
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Need some advice... Since Ts vacation, I just want to push him away as far as possible. I want him to be at the other end of the world if possible. I need to stop that immediatly because it isn't helping me at all... Any ideas on how to stop this?
I think you just need to feel it and acknowledge it. Stopping yourself from feeling things is rarely helpful. I feel the exact same way at the moment (even though I'm on vacation too). I don't even want to talk to him when I get back. I sort of want to whack him but I'm learning to accept my uncomfortable feelings because they exist whether i accept them or not.
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Old Apr 20, 2017, 08:19 AM
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The only thing I ever found all that satisfying to hit with a baseball bat was my last windows laptop. I moved to apple and never looked back. I am not all that enamored of the hardware, although I like it well enough, but I would run their operation system on any computer that would take it. For my purposes, it is much less annoying than windows ever was. If I did not have a lot of documents to deal with, I would just use an ipad with no difficulty. My students all use their phones to scan/photograph forms etc.
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Old Apr 20, 2017, 08:23 AM
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Reasons I shouldn't be in love with T:

- he can't construct a sentence properly
- he doesn't know the difference between Neil Young and Neil Diamond
- he appears to be an apple fanatic
- he wears really boring socks
As you know, there's no such word as 'should' when it comes to feelings but @ your list.

Incidentally, my T wears really brightly coloured socks which don't fit the rest of his outfit, his demeanour or his personality to me at all.
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Old Apr 20, 2017, 08:23 AM
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I guess you and my T would get on just fine then eh SD?

I love my Chromebook and my android phone, Google 100% own my soul. I do have a PC for gaming but I'm not gonna argue that Windows isn't infuriating and useless most of the time. Thankfully I managed to avoid Windows 10...
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Old Apr 20, 2017, 08:23 AM
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Reasons I shouldn't be in love with T:

- he can't construct a sentence properly
- he doesn't know the difference between Neil Young and Neil Diamond
- he appears to be an apple fanatic
- he wears really boring socks
You could get him a set of bright colored socks!
Seriously.. He's there for you, he listens, he "takes care of you". Why shouldn't you be in love with him?

(And being an apple fanatic isn't that bad! Not having a computer is though. Typing on an iPad all the time must be exhausting)
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Old Apr 20, 2017, 08:25 AM
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my T wears really brightly coloured socks which don't fit the rest of his outfit, his demeanour or his personality to me at all.
New list: reasons to love Echos' T...
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Old Apr 20, 2017, 08:26 AM
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New list: reasons to love Echos' T...
I could really bore you with that one
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Old Apr 20, 2017, 08:27 AM
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I don't even want to talk to him when I get back. I sort of want to whack him
Yep. I feel exactly like that too.

Accepting sounds reasonable. I'm just scared that they'll stay forever when I accept them.

I started typing up my text for T. So far I have "I'm not feeling too well". I should get extra points for creativity!
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Old Apr 20, 2017, 08:27 AM
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I guess you and my T would get on just fine then eh SD?

I love my Chromebook and my android phone, Google 100% own my soul. I do have a PC for gaming but I'm not gonna argue that Windows isn't infuriating and useless most of the time. Thankfully I managed to avoid Windows 10...
I seriously thought you meant he loved eating apples!
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Old Apr 20, 2017, 08:28 AM
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I have an android phone also - I have rooted it and flashed roms and so forth- it is fun to play with like that. I have also used a couple of android tablets - they just never worked as well for my purposes as the ipad does. I have never tried a chromebook because I despise google docs.
I don't think I have ever noticed anyone's socks. I have black socks for work and white socks for home/play.
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Old Apr 20, 2017, 08:28 AM
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You could get him a set of bright colored socks!
That's extremely tempting...

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I could really bore you with that one
Hahahah, I bet!
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Old Apr 20, 2017, 08:28 AM
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Yep. I feel exactly like that too.

Accepting sounds reasonable. I'm just scared that they'll stay forever when I accept them.

I started typing up my text for T. So far I have "I'm not feeling too well". I should get extra points for creativity!
I find that accepting feelings helps them to lose their potency.
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Old Apr 20, 2017, 08:29 AM
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I have an android phone also - I have rooted it and flashed roms and so forth- it is fun to play with like that. I have also used a couple of android tablets - they just never worked as well for my purposes as the ipad does. I have never tried a chromebook because I despise google docs.
Yeah google docs is a bit of an arse. I've got used to its quirks now though.
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Old Apr 20, 2017, 08:34 AM
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I seriously thought you meant he loved eating apples!
Awwwwww! Why would I mind that?
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Old Apr 20, 2017, 08:37 AM
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One may be unable to eradicate all emotion but one need not submit to such.
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Awwwwww! Why would I mind that?
I wondered that myself! I also thought how on earth do you know? Does he sit there all session eating apples?
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One may be unable to eradicate all emotion but one need not submit to such.
For me there is a distinction between acceptance and submission.
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Old Apr 20, 2017, 08:43 AM
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I wondered that myself! I also thought how on earth do you know? Does he sit there all session eating apples?
...to be fair that would be pretty annoying...
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I may have to accept I cannot eradicate but I do not have to like it.
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