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#221
JD, You really should see someone, whether it be him or a different t.
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Always in This Twilight
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#222
I know...You're mad at him. And I know you say you don't want help. But you contacted him for a reason. If you didn't care about yourself at all, you wouldn't have bothered. And you wouldn't have posted here. You would have just self-destructed. I think deep down, you do want help. Maybe not from him, and certainly not from your mom, but from somewhere. At least some part of you has some hope. Grab onto that part.
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#223
I came here and wrote about it and wrote to T because I don't want to hide. I don't want to hide what I'm doing. I don't want help I don't want anyone to intervene. I just want to say what is going on with me. But people get all concerned and I DON'T LIKE THAT. So should I just post here if I'm feeling well and happy? If I want advice or concern I would explicitly ask for it. I don't see whu. I can't just post about what is going on I realize natural human reactions are unavoidable but... Maybe I will just take a break from here as well
I don't want to hurt my T and I feel terrible now because he is obviously pretty worried. I NEVER want to hurt him and any of. You and I am sorry I have come here and done that. __________________ |
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#224
It's fine to post whatever. You don't have to get help if you don't want it.
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#225
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Can I ask how you would want people to respond? We can treat you more like Stopdog, if you like. No hugs and stuff. Or would you just prefer no one to respond at all. |
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#226
And you're not hurting us. Don't worry about that.
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#227
(((Jdna))) some thoughts. So youre probably having a transference reaction to his vacation. Leave him before he leaves you. Leave your dad before he leaves you.
In my town, they put the preschool kids on chain gangs - as they walk them around downtown they are tied to a rope. This always just gets to me, im like, this is such a liberal town, how bad ARE these kids?! Now im thinking it symbolizes the new connections we have to make in our brains by seeing t. And also, maybe we are your chain gang. |
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#228
Around here, the children are not tied to the rope but they must hold onto the rope when moving from place to place - it keeps them from getting squashed by cars etc. It makes sense to me.
Not that I would object to children being tied to ropes -but that is not what is happening. __________________ Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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#229
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#230
I'm sorry too JD. I think your t can handle being worried, I don't think you need to worry about him. I hope you continue to post here.
LOL Stopdog. |
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#231
I'm sorry too JD. I want to be here for people in whatever way they want/need. I respect you. Sometimes I respond with my heart instead of my head.
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#232
I worry about you jdna. Please take care and keep posting here. You don't have to protect your t or any of us from your feelings.
How can we help you? |
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#233
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#235
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#236
Ok now I'm crying. I'm hopeless and no one can help. I'm alone.
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#237
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#238
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#239
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But seriously, tied TO the rope? What about a breakaway feature? Say a runaway driver plows into one of them, they'll all get dragged and hurt, whereas SD's kids on a rope can let go and jump back out of the way. |
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#240
The socialists would've first formed a multi-year committee to discuss and produce a voluminous report with recommendations on a number of important topics --
- whether a rope is the appropriate method - if indeed the rope is to be considered, -- can it be sourced entirely outside of the evil influence of Western imperalists / capitalists? -- what precise measurement / thickness should the rope have? (This topic by itself will require a completely separate sub-committee deliberation) - as for the children, how will the inclusion of the rope affect their ability to understand and propagate the wonders of public sector manufacturing innovation - etc No, such hasty and ill thought-out ideas can only be a product of the evil West. |
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