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Old Jul 09, 2017, 07:21 AM
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May trigger, for some.

I am not in the space in my mind to go into it, with any....detail. Simply going through the motions. I lost my beloved adult child to suicide. There is so much I could say but my point of this post is right now....what is the most appropriate way of informing a therapist.

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Old Jul 09, 2017, 03:53 PM
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I'm very sorry to hear this.
In terms of letting your therapist know - you could phone them and tell them, if you feel up to it, or leave a voicemail? Or if you don't feel up to speaking to your therapist right now, perhaps you have someone else, friend or family member perhaps, who could do this for you?
When I had a recent and sudden bereavement I texted my therapist what had happened and then he called me straight back.
Wishing you all the best.
Thanks for this!
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Old Jul 09, 2017, 03:56 PM
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Is this your child's therapist? I would simply call and leave a voicemail, either with the news or a number at which they can reach you.
Thanks for this!
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Old Jul 09, 2017, 05:06 PM
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I'm so, so sorry, FairyFloss. I think the most appropriate way to tell a therapist is to tell them however you are most comfortable telling them. Phone call, email, or whatever way you can muster the strength to do. You have my heartfelt condolences.
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Old Jul 09, 2017, 06:49 PM
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I'm so sorry too. It may be beneficial for you to make an appt with your child's t to tell them. You have a mutual loss even though it likely affects you far more. Otherwise a phone call is appropriate. Take care of yourself.
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Old Jul 09, 2017, 08:05 PM
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I'm so sorry for your loss. I agree that whatever method is easiest for you to tell them makes sense--and then maybe consider having an appointment with the therapist later, if you think it might be helpful.
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