[chasse]

I feel as though T is judging me about my past and even if it's not true it just feels like it is.
I talked to her about my family and what we were like when we were younger and she was criticizing my parents and I feel judged from it even though it's not my fault I feel like taking a break from this because of the appointment I've had

[nicoleflynn]

I think it would be a goodidea to tell your t how what she said made you feel judged.

Loyalty to parents can be very strong. Do tell your T about how you feel judged. She was likely trying to validate your experiences, but it's very common for us to be loyal to parents and be unwilling to hear them criticised even if they did treat us badly.

[chasse]

Thanks for these replies. I think you both are completely right.

[phoenix7]

I hope things are going well now for you - how about an update on how you are doing?

[All Is Revealed]

If any of us are being judged by our therapist, then we need to stand up for ourselves and tell them how we feel. This is not easy to do. But we will only get angrier/sadder as time goes on.

I confronted my therapist last week about how he was judging me. I told him I do not pay for therapy to be judged. I go there to be understood.

[chihirochild]

I've experienced this too. I had to ask my t & pdoc to lay off on criticizing my parents for a bit because it was too much and was making me feel alienated from them (my t and pdoc, not my parents). They were good about it.