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Old Oct 23, 2007, 08:49 PM
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Yeah, I told him once again I wished he would shut up.
That I felt like nothing was good enough for him.

Yet I wasn't teary.
Or feeling emotionally fragile.
Just decided to go for it and express my anger and it came so clear.

It was not charged. It felt like something we do every day -- just two people having a conversation and one gets po'd at the other. Then they talk about it. He questioned something I said and I asked didn't he ever have conflicting feelings....

It was blended. It wasn't polarized. He didn't get angry back. It was okay.
Whew. I feel numb. I felt safe. I am humbled.

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Old Oct 23, 2007, 08:59 PM
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Way to go!

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Old Oct 23, 2007, 09:18 PM
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Old Oct 23, 2007, 09:23 PM
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Perna,

Yeah. Rock on--perfect, just perfect.

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Old Oct 23, 2007, 10:40 PM
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You did not hurl any fruits at him?

I think it says a lot that you were able to express anger with him so comfortably. You two have a strong relationship.
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Old Oct 23, 2007, 11:46 PM
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LOL no fruits!!!!

This comfortable expression of anger is a first. It just sort of happened.
I hope I don't wake up tomorrow freaking out.

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