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Old Jan 15, 2018, 03:15 PM
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Okay just kidding I looked up his picture and they’re hazel/blueish. Shows how much eye contact I make. Or could just be because my eyesight is terrible.
Glad you weren't the only one who looked up their T's photo to figure this out!

I have determined that he must dye his beard, because there's a lot of gray in it in this photo, and he doesn't have gray in it now...(he's in his late 40s).

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Old Jan 15, 2018, 03:16 PM
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I have no clue even though I'm trying to make more eye contact recently. I know they're not blue. Looks like some therapists might get lot of stares this week after this thread
They'll all think we're doing excellent eye contact and really connecting with them, when in reality, we're just trying to figure out their eye color
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Old Jan 15, 2018, 03:17 PM
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Old Jan 15, 2018, 04:46 PM
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They'll all think we're doing excellent eye contact and really connecting with them, when in reality, we're just trying to figure out their eye color
Lol I wonder if it would be less creepy to just ask.
Although I do like the praise for trying to connect
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Old Jan 15, 2018, 05:03 PM
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T's eyes are blue.
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Old Jan 15, 2018, 06:05 PM
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Current T’s eyes I’m not really sure about. Maybe hazel? I know that they’re kind.

Ex T’s are deep, deep dark brown. Like, almost black. And endlessly expressive. Magical.
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Old Jan 15, 2018, 09:05 PM
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Brown or hazel, I think.
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Old Jan 15, 2018, 09:33 PM
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I had to think about if for a bit, but they're a deep brown. I think.
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Old Jan 15, 2018, 10:13 PM
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Old Jan 15, 2018, 11:27 PM
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I can describe his shoes maybe
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Old Jan 16, 2018, 08:08 AM
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I literally have no idea.
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Old Jan 16, 2018, 11:13 AM
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Old Jan 16, 2018, 01:34 PM
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No idea but I want to say brown for T and greenish for EMDR T. I will have to check next week
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Old Jan 16, 2018, 03:49 PM
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Blue? At least I think they are
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Old Jan 16, 2018, 03:59 PM
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OK, after spending some time during session looking at them today, I'm...somewhat confident that T's eyes are green. Possibly hazel, but more on the greenish side. (like, my daughter's are hazel--brown in middle, green on outside.) I thought about just asking him, but felt really weird doing that for some reason.
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Old Jan 17, 2018, 11:49 AM
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I'm a brown eyed girl!
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Old Jan 17, 2018, 04:40 PM
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No idea. :| I am really thát bad at eye contact.
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Old Jan 17, 2018, 05:00 PM
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I asked my T ages ago if he remembered the colour of his clients eyes since he spent so much dam time staring into them. He smiled and said no but he turned it back around on me. He said he would be able to have his clients stand in a line and know exactly what is going on with them.

I always hate being stared at so my asking him about eye colour was a snotty remark because I found it's just a tool they use. Which it is.

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Old Jan 17, 2018, 07:41 PM
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They are blue. I am not generally observant, but I notice pretty eyes. I've noticed that many people have trouble identifying eye color. I have cool-toned green eyes, but many people mistake them for blue or grey. They get really green when I cry, for some reason. I think people have trouble differentiating between light colored eyes - unless they are vivid blue, which is really the only vivid color that occurs naturally.
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Old Jan 17, 2018, 08:43 PM
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A greenish blue.
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