In Session Today: Part V

lucozader · Jan 08, 2019 at 12:49 PM

I think it was extremely rude of you to talk about myself and another forum member like that where you know we will see it. You clearly wanted us to.

For the record, I have not "personally admitted that [I] only "believe in" humanistic therapy" at all, I believe that all the various mainstream modalities have their place, can benefit various people at various times for various issues, and can also be used in an integrative way very effectively (this probably doesn't include your T, since he doesn't have any theoretical base or structure to his work at all and basically just does whatever he feels like). I work in a humanistic way and that is where my heart is. But I love that you want to pretend that's the only reason I think your therapist is s**t. So go ahead, put it down to that if it makes you feel better.

LonesomeTonight · Jan 08, 2019 at 12:52 PM

Fine, I'll delete that section.

lucozader · Jan 08, 2019 at 12:52 PM

Bit late for that isn't it?

LonesomeTonight · 01:15 PM

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Originally Posted by lucozader

Bit late for that isn't it?

Yes, I know you have many reasons for disliking my T, I was just responding to what I had put in the post that you were reacting to. I have many reasons for liking him, and he's helping me.

ETA I deleted that section (I left something in general about friendships, but that's an overarching thing I find I do with many friends, including people from high school, and I realized it was a pattern, so I think it's acceptable to leave that in).

DP_2017 · Jan 08, 2019 at 12:53 PM

Lol look whose on her high horse again

Humanistic is your heart? Yet my t wasn't allowed to be human with me, maybe a career change would help everyone lol

Lt
Don't give into her crap. She's dramatic

DP_2017 · Jan 08, 2019 at 12:55 PM

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Originally Posted by lucozader

Bit late for that isn't it?

You outed yourself. No one here would know it was you if you didn't have a tantrum

Jan 08, 2019 at 01:13 PM

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Originally Posted by DP_2017

Lol look whose on her high horse again

Humanistic is your heart? Yet my t wasn't allowed to be human with me, maybe a career change would help everyone lol

Lt
Don't give into her crap. She's dramatic

Are you deliberately obtuse? Humanistic does not mean being fake friends.

Jan 08, 2019 at 01:08 PM

What do you expect to happen when you detail your therapy like an open wound in order that a bunch of morons (I include myself in that bunch) can gawp at it? People will form opinions, comment, upset you, be partial, be hurt, be hurtful: be the messy morons which we all are.

Boundaries keep things in as well as out. I think the amount of detail you provide, and the subsequent level of involvement it invites from strangers, is a good example of unboundaried interactions. I know we often disagree, but in these instances, your vulnerability is palpable and it makes me sad and uncomfortable.

LonesomeTonight · Jan 08, 2019 at 01:11 PM

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Originally Posted by SorryOozit

What do you expect to happen when you detail your therapy like an open wound in order that a bunch of morons (I include myself in that bunch) can gawp at it? People will form opinions, comment, upset you, be partial, be hurt, be hurtful: be the messy morons which we all are.

Boundaries keep things in as well as out. I think the amount of detail you provide, and the subsequent level of involvement it invites from strangers, is a good example of unboundaried interactions. I know we often disagree, but in these instances, your vulnerability is palpable and it makes me sad and uncomfortable.

I'm sorry that my openness and vulnerability make you uncomfortable. If so, then don't read my posts. I know I've benefited from other people being open and vulnerable on here and that some people like reading what I write. If people have an issue with me, I'm sorry.

Jan 08, 2019 at 01:16 PM

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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight

I'm sorry that my openness and vulnerability make you uncomfortable. If so, then don't read my posts. I know I've benefited from other people being open and vulnerable on here and that some people like reading what I write. If people have an issue with me, I'm sorry.

You don't need to apologise, nor change how you post. Likewise, I am not interested in avoiding reading or commenting on posts because they make me uncomfortable. I was sharing my response to what I perceive as you not protecting yourself. Lots of my stuff in there of course.

DP_2017 · Jan 08, 2019 at 01:16 PM

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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight

I'm sorry that my openness and vulnerability make you uncomfortable. If so, then don't read my posts. I know I've benefited from other people being open and vulnerable on here and that some people like reading what I write. If people have an issue with me, I'm sorry.

Don't apologize, generally she's just rude. Take her comments like I do. Don't let them get you down. She's obviously got her own issues. I agree though. People can stop reading **** they don't like and stop commenting on things just to starr drama . There should be more support here

Jan 08, 2019 at 01:19 PM

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Originally Posted by DP_2017

Don't apologize, generally she's just rude. Take her comments like I do. Don't let them get you down. She's obviously got her own issues. I agree though. People can stop reading **** they don't like and stop commenting on things just to starr drama . There should be more support here

Of course I have my own issues, I am in therapy! What a hoot this place is.

DP_2017 · Jan 08, 2019 at 01:14 PM

Mind your business. It's between her and i. Don't say fake friends, you literally know nothing about what I'm even referring to.

Jan 08, 2019 at 01:18 PM

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Originally Posted by DP_2017

Mind your business. It's between her and i. Don't say fake friends, you literally know nothing about what I'm even referring to.

I enjoy commenting on your posts, as frustrating as I find you. Since this is a forum, it's anyone's business who wants to read and comment.

DP_2017 · Jan 08, 2019 at 01:20 PM

I find you annoying lol....
But i literally don't care what you think. You don't know anything about my situation as you were not part of it
Comment all you want but i don't take any of it seriously

DP_2017 · Jan 08, 2019 at 01:21 PM

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Originally Posted by SorryOozit

Of course I have my own issues, I am in therapy! What a hoot this place is.

Hence the use of obviously. I like how your cohoart "likes" all your posts. Too funny

Jan 08, 2019 at 01:24 PM

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Originally Posted by DP_2017

I find you annoying lol....
But i literally don't care what you think. You don't know anything about my situation as you were not part of it
Comment all you want but i don't take any of it seriously

I am annoying, you are right, and you definitely shouldn't take what I say seriously. I am as loony as the next one.

lucozader · Jan 08, 2019 at 01:22 PM

It's true. I'm a right cohoart I am.

DP_2017 · Jan 08, 2019 at 01:23 PM

That's not all you are lol

lucozader · Jan 08, 2019 at 01:24 PM

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That's not all you are lol

It sure isn't!

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LonesomeTonight Always in This Twilight Member Since Feb 2015 Location: US Posts: 20,840 (SuperPoster!) 9 75.1k hugs given	Jan 08, 2019 at 12:52 PM #2 Fine, I'll delete that section.

lucozader Most Dangerous Member Since Feb 2017 Location: UK Posts: 2,920 7 7,642 hugs given	Jan 08, 2019 at 12:52 PM #3 Bit late for that isn't it?

DP_2017 Grand Magnate Member Since Aug 2017 Location: A house Posts: 4,414 6 665 hugs given	Jan 08, 2019 at 12:53 PM #5 Lol look whose on her high horse again Humanistic is your heart? Yet my t wasn't allowed to be human with me, maybe a career change would help everyone lol Lt Don't give into her crap. She's dramatic __________________ Grief is the price you pay for love.

DP_2017 Grand Magnate Member Since Aug 2017 Location: A house Posts: 4,414 6 665 hugs given	Jan 08, 2019 at 01:14 PM #13 Mind your business. It's between her and i. Don't say fake friends, you literally know nothing about what I'm even referring to. __________________ Grief is the price you pay for love.

DP_2017 Grand Magnate Member Since Aug 2017 Location: A house Posts: 4,414 6 665 hugs given	Jan 08, 2019 at 01:20 PM #15 I find you annoying lol.... But i literally don't care what you think. You don't know anything about my situation as you were not part of it Comment all you want but i don't take any of it seriously __________________ Grief is the price you pay for love.

lucozader Most Dangerous Member Since Feb 2017 Location: UK Posts: 2,920 7 7,642 hugs given	Jan 08, 2019 at 01:22 PM #18 It's true. I'm a right cohoart I am.

DP_2017 Grand Magnate Member Since Aug 2017 Location: A house Posts: 4,414 6 665 hugs given	Jan 08, 2019 at 01:23 PM #19 That's not all you are lol __________________ Grief is the price you pay for love.