Accidents in therapy? Embarrassing

Merope · Jan 08, 2019 at 07:47 AM

I haven’t had an accident (yet), but I have very heavy periods and my T has white fabric armchairs. Naturally, I’m paranoid. Could be a matter of time.

DP_2017 · Jan 08, 2019 at 08:29 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Merope

I haven’t had an accident (yet), but I have very heavy periods and my T has white fabric armchairs. Naturally, I’m paranoid. Could be a matter of time.

Yikes, that would be awful. Hopefully you don't have that experience ever.

Have you ever discussed this fear with him? I know it's awkward but honestly... mine even knew when I was having mine.... once I started talking about it, and saw how unphased he was, it became easier to bring up, even as a joke so he kinda figured things out and basically knew. Was weirdly comforting

Merope · Jan 08, 2019 at 08:45 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DP_2017

Yikes, that would be awful. Hopefully you don't have that experience ever.

Have you ever discussed this fear with him? I know it's awkward but honestly... mine even knew when I was having mine.... once I started talking about it, and saw how unphased he was, it became easier to bring up, even as a joke so he kinda figured things out and basically knew. Was weirdly comforting

Oh god I don’t think I can bring that up with him ahah. I’m sure he’d be unphased but still. How did you go about it?

DP_2017 · Jan 08, 2019 at 08:48 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Merope

Oh god I don’t think I can bring that up with him ahah. I’m sure he’d be unlphases but still. How did you go about it?

Initially it kinda just came out. In my mind, I was mortified for ages to even consider anything like it so that's why it took so long but when we got to discussing my surgery, which is related to periods and such...I just started taking casually about it and was like, oh wait, he's just sitting there normal.... lol... and he seemed really sad for me and was kind about it all, so after that initial convo, I was so comfortable with him as it was, that it just became normal seeming to bring up...like I would with a female friend or something.

Menu

My Support Forums - Mental Health Support Groups

Get emotional support and friendship from others like you!

Accidents in therapy? Embarrassing

My Support Forums

Merope Veteran Member Member Since Jan 2018 Location: Somewhere in a cloud Posts: 719 6 479 hugs given	Jan 08, 2019 at 07:47 AM #1 I haven’t had an accident (yet), but I have very heavy periods and my T has white fabric armchairs. Naturally, I’m paranoid. Could be a matter of time.
	Reply With Quote