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Old Feb 11, 2019, 10:29 PM
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Old joke from my younger days:
Why do lesbians have pool tables in their basements?
Because softball fields won't fit.
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Old Feb 11, 2019, 10:33 PM
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Old joke from my younger days:

Why do lesbians have pool tables in their basements?

Because softball fields won't fit.
I love shooting pool but hadn't in a long time.
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Old Feb 11, 2019, 11:03 PM
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I believe I may develop an affinity for Maker's Mark. H got a shot but he didn't like it and so I finished it. We talked a little bit more walking back to our room.
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Old Feb 11, 2019, 11:04 PM
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Wow, Art! Hope you're doing OK.

Wow is right, I'm not sure what got into me...
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Old Feb 11, 2019, 11:06 PM
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One of the pics I took hiking today.
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Old Feb 11, 2019, 11:07 PM
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Another pic from today.
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Old Feb 11, 2019, 11:45 PM
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I have a herding group dog - two of them.
A corgi and a bouvier. You can herd Welsh and Belgian cattle.
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Old Feb 11, 2019, 11:48 PM
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Wow is right, I'm not sure what got into me...
It's all for the best in the long run.
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Old Feb 11, 2019, 11:56 PM
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I just want to curl up in a corner and cry. I hate finances. We just lost our insurance because we didn't pay it for 2 months. H was surprised for some reason even though I told him last week that I thought it was cancelled.

There's just so much stress! I'm really tired: physically and mentally.
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Old Feb 12, 2019, 01:40 AM
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You can decline the pap smear if you don't want it. The doc can't do anything without your consent.
A GP once refused to refill my hormonal contraceptive if I didn't consent to a pap smear. Gave me a long lecture on how I should marry soon and pop out kids.

I'm on hormonal contraception for acne and my periods, but even if I'm having PIV sex (not that I could get in a word to tell her I'm not), it's not right that she refused to refill and insisted on a pap. I have sexual trauma and sexual dysfunction related to that so I'm terrified of a pap

I make sure never to go into the clinic she shares with my regular GP (who doesn't insist on a pap smear) when she's in.
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Old Feb 12, 2019, 01:59 AM
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Pap smears definitely suck. I hate them. But maybe you could just get it over with? Cervical cancer is rare. However, it used to be the leading cause of cancer death for women in the US. The reason it's not anymore is down to pap smears.


Women are at highest risk between ages 35 and 44. HPV is probably the biggest risk factor - so if you had the vaccine or if you have never been sexually active, you are pretty low risk. Other risk factors include smoking, chlamydia, being overweight, not eating enough fruits and veg, long term oral BC or hormonal IUD use, having a weakened immune system, having 3+ full term pregnancies, having a full term pregnancy before age 17, being of low income, and prior use of DES - and obviously, a family history of cervical cancer.
To add on to your comment, I found this informative comment by a doctor on reddit: Comment. Ignore the thread title
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Old Feb 12, 2019, 02:19 AM
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I feel like a jack wagon for going to T tonight with barely any voice. I made sure to go to the doctor today to make sure it wasn't strep and got the all clear. But my voice gave out quite a few times tonight during our session. T didn't seem bothered by it but I was getting frustrated. I don't see him until Wednesday evening so I hope my voice is back by then.
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Old Feb 12, 2019, 04:17 AM
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I'm thinking SD has Anatolian shepherds.

Quote:
Gina Linetti: Do you know which dogs on the Internet get the most likes?
Raymond Holt: Anatolian shepherds

Gina Linetti: No, ugly little runts with wonky eyes and tongues that won't stay in their mouths.
Captain Holt: But the Anatolian Shepherd is unrivaled for protecting livestock.
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Old Feb 12, 2019, 06:49 AM
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Last night i dreamt SD hand-wrote me a denying love note on the last page of the newspaper, which was delivered as she rowed the boat ashore.
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Old Feb 12, 2019, 06:55 AM
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It's all for the best in the long run.
I believe that, I do, somehow some way it is. The relief I feel is huge. I slept so well last night.
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Old Feb 12, 2019, 06:56 AM
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R today ~ 4 hours.
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Old Feb 12, 2019, 06:58 AM
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Last night i dreamt SD hand-wrote me a denying love note on the last page of the newspaper, which was delivered as she rowed the boat ashore.
What did you eat before bed?!?
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Old Feb 12, 2019, 07:01 AM
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What did you eat before bed?!?
I know! I havent been eating before bed! My true dreams are being let loose!
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Old Feb 12, 2019, 07:06 AM
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She accepts tuna or shrimp bisque or PawPal for payment.


I still hadn't got over the awesomeness of the "yurt" comment- now this!

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Old Feb 12, 2019, 07:07 AM
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I know! I havent been eating before bed! My true dreams are being let loose!
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Old Feb 12, 2019, 07:10 AM
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When pigs fly...
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Old Feb 12, 2019, 07:13 AM
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When pigs fly...
If reindeers can why not pigs?!
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Old Feb 12, 2019, 07:14 AM
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I know I do get attached to everyone and everything, I don't say this all the time, but I honestly do love you guys.

Gonna finish a timeline documentary about Queen Elizabeth.

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Old Feb 12, 2019, 08:47 AM
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I'm so stressed about the right choice regarding surgery Thurs, I feel that I'll make the wrong choice no matter what.

On the plus side, I was really impressed with "baby t" yesterday, he really stepped up and was quite helpful. Gave me a lot of time to talk about T
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Old Feb 12, 2019, 09:20 AM
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We are on our third day of straight rain/freezing rain. The animals are going nuts and the greyness is killing me.
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