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#1
Mar 13, 2019, 04:59 PM
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If you could interview one person in your T's life, who would it be and what would you ask them?
I would choose his mom... so we could talk about childhood/teen life stories. I think she probably knows him better than most
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#2
Mar 13, 2019, 05:01 PM
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Maybe his wife or one of his kids. Maybe I’d see him in a more realistic light
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| captgut, DP_2017, LonesomeTonight
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#3
Mar 13, 2019, 05:02 PM
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His supervisor, so I could know what he doesn't tell me about what he thinks about working with me!
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| annielovesbacon, captgut, DP_2017, LonesomeTonight, NP_Complete, precaryous, SalingerEsme, Spangle
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#4
Mar 13, 2019, 05:05 PM
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#5
Mar 13, 2019, 05:33 PM
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Hm...I'd like to meet his son, but not necessarily interview him. I don't feel a desire to interview his wife especially. I'll go with his brother (I know he has one) because he could give me perspective on him both as a kid and an adult.
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#6
Mar 13, 2019, 05:39 PM
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Ha ha ~ I think I'd go for his supervisor too! 
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#7
Mar 13, 2019, 06:04 PM
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Hmm, that's a hard one because I don't really know about who is in her life. I know she has a daughter, but what if it turned out she's a terrible mother? I wouldn't want to know that. I know this isn't what you meant by in her life, but I would be curious to interview another client of hers.
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Mar 13, 2019, 06:13 PM
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With current T, I guess her son, because I don't know if she is married or has a partner. With former T for sure her brother, because she's a twin.
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Mar 13, 2019, 06:35 PM
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Her partner.
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#10
Mar 13, 2019, 06:38 PM
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Nobody!
 I desire to know nothing about my T. My biggest fear is seeing T "in the wild," outside of the office. I feel like knowing anything about T personally would really...make therapy a lot more difficult for me. |
| GeekyOne, LonesomeTonight
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#11
Mar 13, 2019, 06:48 PM
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His wife. I know before our work is done I will meet her which is what I really want more than an interview. They co-facilitate groups together and as much as I HATE the idea of group therapy I will cave just to meet his wife and see them together.
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Mar 13, 2019, 06:53 PM
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#13
Mar 13, 2019, 06:56 PM
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Ooh this is a good question. I’m gonna go with his supervisor or coworker, whichever one he tells more about his sessions. I would say his wife, but I think I might get too jealous and it would affect therapy potentially.
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Mar 13, 2019, 07:07 PM
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Mar 13, 2019, 07:15 PM
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Her mom. Something tells me her mom is really special to her. I'd just enjoy hearing more about their life together.
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Mar 13, 2019, 08:02 PM
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Her husband because I'd be curious about what kind of wife she is.
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#17
Mar 13, 2019, 08:30 PM
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With T I would have lived to met her mom to find out why T was never food enough for her. T was such a kind and compassionate person I could have never imagined what the problem was. I Ts SO a few times and met her brother, son and daughter and law after her death.
EMDR T would be her 3 year old son. I love the age and imagine he is probably pretty happy go lucky...plus they are so brutally honest.
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Mar 13, 2019, 08:46 PM
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I would like to see him with his grand kids too but I know I would totally break down and be a basket case so I would have to be far away or in some kind of one way, sound proof magic room so as not to influence them. But I also think that would ruin him as a T for me because I would become too fearful of him after seeing him be so loving.
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Mar 14, 2019, 01:58 AM
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Probably her best friend, she seems like a very fun person and I'd be curious to know what she's like around her friends!
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#20
Mar 14, 2019, 04:08 AM
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No one. I would want to avoid that at all costs. I have enough to worry about without opening myself up to obsession about T or someone in her life. I would obsess. And I really don't want to. So no one.
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#21
Mar 14, 2019, 07:26 AM
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None... I prefer to know him through my experiences with him, not others'.
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| LonesomeTonight
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Mar 14, 2019, 08:19 AM
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#23
Mar 14, 2019, 08:33 AM
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No one that I really can think of. I would, however, just love to be a fly on the wall watching them interact with their grandbabies. They are all so in love with those grandchildren; I know it would be lovely and probably a bit hilarious.
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#24
Mar 14, 2019, 08:33 AM
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I wouldn't care about what the therapist was like to other people. I assume the woman was highly annoying in real life but how ever she was in real life had no bearing on her failures as a therapist to me.
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Mar 14, 2019, 12:41 PM
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His ex wife! I also like the idea of talking to his supervisor to find out what he really thinks about me.
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