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Default Mar 31, 2019 at 09:54 PM
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Just splashed an entire bottle of febreeze in my face and now I have the hiccups... going to be a fabulous evening.
i dont know what febreeze is, but i hope no harm comes just the hiccups
 
 
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unexpected outcome. Today my T became my ex T just like that. I feel it was arash decision but it felt like a relief at the time. $120 more a fortnight for me.
Did you decide to quit?

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Did you decide to quit?
Yes and no. i didnt feel like i was getting anywhere but my T said sometimes we need to stop struggling in order to get somewhere. i felt i have been struggling and the fact i am really reluctant to talk and tolerate all the intensity seemed to tip me that way.
 
 
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Default Mar 31, 2019 at 10:02 PM
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i dont know what febreeze is, but i hope no harm comes just the hiccups
It is chemical crap you spray on clothes to make them smell better. I don’t usually use stuff like it but my son is being... well... a stinker... literally... so a nice cold shower to wash it out of my eyes and we are all good.

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Default Mar 31, 2019 at 10:03 PM
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H is being a royal pain tonight. He's complaining about a headache. I tell him to take something. He says he can't because it interferes with his bp meds. *SIGH* Then he said that he's worried it might be a stroke or something worse.

I do not need his **** right now! I need time for me and someone to listen to my woes. So frustrating!

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Default Mar 31, 2019 at 10:12 PM
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Hi couchies.
Did you see SD'S note to you below or above about kindle?
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Did you see SD'S note to you below or above about kindle?
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My t seemed to see it as a sign when the stapler ran out of staples on my last invoice
 
 
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I am stunned. I cant believe i did that.
 
 
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just wrote a goodbye text to t because i was so stunned this morning i did not know what to say. just wanted him to know i no longer see myself as disposable.
 
 
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Default Apr 01, 2019 at 01:05 AM
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Yes and no. i didnt feel like i was getting anywhere but my T said sometimes we need to stop struggling in order to get somewhere. i felt i have been struggling and the fact i am really reluctant to talk and tolerate all the intensity seemed to tip me that way.


It's okay to quit or take a break when you need to. Therapy is rough.Esme mentioned neurofeedback previously, for me anyway i think it's better to lay a strong foundation first that allows you to a actually cope with trigger stuff.

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I'm still in reputure mode with R and have been for the past month..I wish I didn't send him the gift card, but I did. Last week I did have a breakdown and I couldn't reach him, which was the same thing that happened the last time in january. I feel like he isn't there when I really need him.

I dreamt that I was talking to a new counselor in a hall as students went by.

I had previously received an email about free counseling linked to my school but the location is actually an hour away from me, but I emailed asking if we could do a phone/ skype session instead of in person.

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welcome back Artie!


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Default Apr 01, 2019 at 03:59 AM
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i think i made a huge mistake
 
 
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Default Apr 01, 2019 at 04:26 AM
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i think i made a huge mistake
It's not irreversible is it?
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It's not irreversible is it?
yes i think it might be irreversible as i would be a new client now and he isnt taking new clients and hasnt for over year, so maybe i could go on a waiting list. i dont know. i am going to give it 2 weeks and see if i change my mind. He has probably given my spot away already.
 
 
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yes i think it might be irreversible as i would be a new client now and he isnt taking new clients and hasnt for over year, so maybe i could go on a waiting list. i dont know. i am going to give it 2 weeks and see if i change my mind. He has probably given my spot away already.
If you were my client, I wouldn't be classing you as a new client. And if he's not taking new clients, perhaps your spot won't be filled. It's worth asking if/when you feel you want to return.
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welcome back Artie!
Thanks Lemon! I never can stay away very long.... I missed y'all.
 
 
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Questions of the day inside artie's mind: it's going on 7 weeks now since I last saw t. I'm feeling like disappearing on her was wrong esp since my last session I was a bit of an emotional mess. I don't want more therapy. But I want her to know that I'm doing much better than I was at that time. Has too much time passed? Did I miss my chance to say goodbye? Am I stupid even wanting to say goodbye? It just feels wrong not to when we had such a long therapy relationship. Its also - I think until I do tell her goodbye I'll keep perseverating on this....
 
 
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yes i think it might be irreversible as i would be a new client now and he isnt taking new clients and hasnt for over year, so maybe i could go on a waiting list. i dont know. i am going to give it 2 weeks and see if i change my mind. He has probably given my spot away already.
I can't imagine you'd just suddenly be classified a new client. Hugs BCM.
 
 
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