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Old Jun 21, 2019, 12:20 AM
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I feel like I am going crazy. I imagine talking to my T practically all day — like they are right there with me as I go about my normal day.

Do other people do this? And to what extent?
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Old Jun 21, 2019, 12:51 AM
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I do this, but not as much as I used to. With ex-T, I used to talk to her every day. With L, I talk with her to prepare what I want to say in session. I'm actually doing it tonight because I bought her two books and I'm trying to plan out how to tell her.

When I talk to people in my head, sometimes I even do it outloud. But most the time it remains in my head.
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Old Jun 21, 2019, 02:02 AM
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Yes. A lot. I describe things that have happened to him in my head. I discuss what I am going to talk about next week, or what happened in the last session over and over and over all all week. It's a lot like you describe, like having imaginary T as a near-constant companion.
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Old Jun 21, 2019, 07:08 AM
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I 'rehearse' conversations I need to have.
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Old Jun 21, 2019, 07:26 AM
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Yup. I do this sometimes. Sometimes it even helps me to work out my problems on my own so I don't have to bring it up in session.
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Old Jun 21, 2019, 07:32 AM
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I do this all.the.time! mostly only in my head, sometimes out loud when I'm driving by myself.
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Old Jun 21, 2019, 07:41 AM
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Sometimes I have intense arguments with him in my head which is unlike the way that I interact with him in person.
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Old Jun 21, 2019, 07:41 AM
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Heck, I have imaginary conversations with myself. LOL! I've done that all my life. I have imaginary conversations with lots of people. It's pretty normal, even out loud.

I've always like this interview/conversation about this subject: The Running Conversation in Your Head - The Atlantic

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Old Jun 21, 2019, 07:55 AM
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I do sometimes with Emdr. Usually it is preparing what and how I will say things. I also think about how she will respond except other than being supportive I really dont know what she will say.

With T I talked to her a lot. I had the conversations about what to say but usually I knew somewhat how I would respond. I also talk to her about how I would proceed with a difficult situation. I still talk to her quite a bit now it's trying to seek her knowledge and sometimes vent. I often write an email that gets saved as a draft.
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Old Jun 21, 2019, 09:52 AM
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Darn right I do. It helps me form what I am going to say in my session and how I am going to present it. Kind of making an outline in my head.
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Old Jun 21, 2019, 12:07 PM
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Sometimes I do this. It helps me to think of what I need to say, or sometimes to sort out what I don't need to say. And then some weeks I don't think about therapy from the time I leave the office until it's time to go to the next appointment a week later.
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Old Jun 21, 2019, 05:08 PM
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I've been talking to her in my head off an on all day today. I sometimes think dang I hope she doesn't somehow psychically hear all of this.....
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Old Jun 21, 2019, 06:11 PM
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I practic what I am going to say with everything. Even a bus driver, barista, waitress, any interaction. Thanks social aniety lol so yeah I "talk" to T
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Old Jun 21, 2019, 07:32 PM
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Yeah all the time. I always forget stuff though when I’m actually in session. I also do this with my doctor and people at work.
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Old Jun 22, 2019, 06:07 AM
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I don't, but I kind of wish I could.
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Old Jun 22, 2019, 03:29 PM
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I sure do! I have imaginary conversations with everyone though. I think it's how I practice what I want to say.
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Old Jun 22, 2019, 04:05 PM
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I do this sometimes. She is as rude and as inconsistent in my imagination as she is in the therapy room.
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Old Jun 23, 2019, 08:23 AM
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Free therapy!

I do it all the time.Glad to know I'm not the only one.
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Old Jun 25, 2019, 11:28 AM
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We talk all the time as multiple it can be a way of life. We are plural so it doesn't matter even if imaginary friend. You probably do it more than you realize anyway.
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Old Jun 25, 2019, 12:41 PM
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We talk all the time as multiple it can be a way of life. We are plural so it doesn't matter even if imaginary friend. You probably do it more than you realize anyway.
I don't understand what this means. Can you explain?
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Old Jun 25, 2019, 05:05 PM
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I have imaginary conversations with most of the people in my life (there aren't many). The therapist would only be special if I never had pretend conversations with her.

Actually, what I do isn't really a conversation. They are more like monologues with specific audiences.
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