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Default Aug 19, 2019 at 12:56 PM
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My T confuses me so much...after all that stuff about standing before...and how he can stand at end if I pay at the beginning (which he's been doing), today I forgot to pay at the beginning, so I just paid at the end. And he...stayed standing during my payment and saying goodbye. He did say he was about to feed his fish (that sounds like a weird euphemism, but he does have a betta fish in there!), so I guess he was going to keep standing anyway? Still...sigh. It was nice, just puzzling.
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My T confuses me so much...after all that stuff about standing before...and how he can stand at end if I pay at the beginning (which he's been doing), today I forgot to pay at the beginning, so I just paid at the end. And he...stayed standing during my payment and saying goodbye. He did say he was about to feed his fish (that sounds like a weird euphemism, but he does have a betta fish in there!), so I guess he was going to keep standing anyway? Still...sigh. It was nice, just puzzling.
I would find it confusing. Try not to read too much into it though. He probably was just going to feed the fish.

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My parents are going to be gone Friday through Monday. They are going to AZ. So I will be home alone. Just me, the two kitties, and the dog. I'm thinking about going to Disneyland on Sunday so that will be one less day that I am alone. And I work Friday and Monday. With all the recent SH and SI I'm thinking being all alone isn't going to bode well for me. So I am trying to plan ahead.

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Also, when I sat down, my T was like, "Your hair is shorter." and I was like, "Yes it is, I got a haircut." He's such a guy. Like, say a fake compliment at least or something!
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Did anyone watch Downton Abbey Live on PBS last night? I was amazed how much different Mrs. Hughes looked! She looks fabulous IRL and so much different than her character. Anyone planning on seeing the movie?

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I did feel my T seemed particularly attuned to me today. He may understand me more than I'd realized. Had some interesting discussion about how all relationships end (even if by death) and how most people are in denial of that, so it's how they manage. While I'm unable to be in denial of that (T's words). I asked if maybe acceptance of that fact could work for me, and he thought so. He said how relationships can be valuable and have meaning, no matter how fleeting, even a few days. So we talked about finding meaning in them and trying to appreciate them for what they are.
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Went for a lovely walk with a former mentor. Now for an ice cream break.

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Did anyone watch Downton Abbey Live on PBS last night? I was amazed how much different Mrs. Hughes looked! She looks fabulous IRL and so much different than her character. Anyone planning on seeing the movie?
Dint see it last night, but yeah mrs hughes IRL is NOT drab ol mrs hughes!

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Classes haven’t even begun yet and my stress levels are at October norms.

It has to do with this TA I lost. Applied for two graders instead. Our idiot HR manager decided the application was a mistake because I must mean graders for my other course (Western Civ) that has graders. So she cancels it without asking for clarification.

When I ask about it this morning, there results a huge email chain, chairs cc’d, lots of cya-ing. And she is still not moving on graders for the right course.


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I want to lay on the floor in my office and take a nap....too bad that's against the rules.

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Had a stupid night lots of dreams of exT one of my cats actively tried to kill me by laying on my face and I woke up in really bad mood.
 
 
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On a colleague's recommendation I am drowning my sorrows in fireball whiskey. It's good if you like cinnamon.

And eating the only gluten free food I seem to be able to emotionally eat with--Annie's cheddar crackers.

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I'm wearing a shirt that is like three sizes too big today, so I had to roll the sleeves up three times to get them to my wrists. Not the most professional looking (we are very relaxed here) but I don't care. It was soft and cozy and it was what I wanted to wear. I'm sure my Mom will have something to say about it when I go home tonight though.

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T tonight in a little less than 2 hours. I plan on telling her something traumatic tonight which is why I think I'm anxious, nervous, scared, etc. Anyone wanna come along in my pocket?

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Eschewing the cabin’s wood burning stove in favor of my little propane burner.

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Classes haven’t even begun yet and my stress levels are at October norms.

It has to do with this TA I lost. Applied for two graders instead. Our idiot HR manager decided the application was a mistake because I must mean graders for my other course (Western Civ) that has graders. So she cancels it without asking for clarification.

When I ask about it this morning, there results a huge email chain, chairs cc’d, lots of cya-ing. And she is still not moving on graders for the right course.

I suspect she has instructions:
1. To hire no more graders.
2. Not to tell anyone that there will be no more graders.

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