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Old Jul 04, 2020, 08:51 PM
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Is it ok to ask a T their age when you are looking for a new T?

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Old Jul 04, 2020, 11:29 PM
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Yes, it is okay to ask.
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Old Jul 04, 2020, 11:30 PM
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It is OK to ask. They might not answer but it is absolutely OK to ask.
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Old Jul 04, 2020, 11:35 PM
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I think it's ok to ask.
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Old Jul 05, 2020, 05:40 AM
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I agree that it's OK to ask, but they might not tell you. They should be willing to tell you how many years they've been practicing. But if a T had a different career earlier, then it could be harder to know what their actual age is.
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Old Jul 06, 2020, 12:43 PM
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I asked her how long she has been practicing and she said well I am 31 so 9 year. So she saved me having to ask. I told her she would my first time with a T younger than me. But she does have two kids so that is good. So she can relate so what to parenthood. I liked her but I still have to more to check out.
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