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Luna's offical mini me.
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#521
My mother told me:
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Luna's offical mini me.
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#522
Also really pissed of Y.
I agreed to study for my internal exam with her which she needs to do too. She wanted to go through each topic from the start, but actually read it section by section and then she would ask me to repeat it back to her before reaching the next section. I don't find it helpful listening to someone else read. I know my brain doesn't work like that and I need an overview first and physically write out stuff at the same time. I told her I wanted to go through it by myself individually then we could discuss at the end. That we could study over zoom. She told me how she studied with two other people like that and that she was expecting resistance from me. I also got annoyed at the "do you want to pass the exam ? " question. Totally = __________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." Last edited by Lemoncake; Dec 17, 2020 at 03:55 PM.. |
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#523
I’ve been using coping skills that have been incredibly helpful. But they could be considered very strange coping skills to some people. I’ve told you before and you have been totally cool and non judgmental about them. So I’m wondering how to tell my case manager what’s been working without actually telling what I’ve been using. I do miss seeing you and being able to be completely open about things.
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Luna's offical mini me.
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#524
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After moaning about spending Christmas alone I did get an offer to spend Christmas with my friend R who I haven't seen since the 27th of November, but honestly now I would rather spend it alone. __________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
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Poohbah
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#525
I look forward to my session with you. I like how you listen to me . I feel you are very understanding of my self esteem issues.
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#526
I'm beginning to feel like your use of the word 'despair' might be appropriate. I've felt a real resistance towards it...'It's not that bad.'
It is that bad. This is everything I've fought against. I cannot do this reduced life thing indefinitely. __________________ 'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
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#527
Hey T. Miss you.
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Magnate
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#528
Thanks for emailing me back. I... I don't know what I'm going to do without you.
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#529
I’ve been listening to this song every night for a few weeks called Halls by Andrew McMahon In The Wilderness. It makes me just feel this intense feeling that I can feel deep in my stomach. I miss you a lot and I’m trying not to let it bother my Christmas.
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Child of a lesser god
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#530
Dear No. 3,
I dreamt about emailing you last night, since Info’s not available and I would really like to talk to someone I know, i.e., not a new person. ATAT |
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#531
Listening to the rain in bed. I wish you could tell me all about you. I've told you all about me. I don't feel like I get to form a clear image of you as a person, because I know Ts must edit themselves to follow the professions 'ethics' or whatever. I wish I lived in a time where we didn't have all those awful rules. Rules in our sessions don't make things ok or better, they limit and define and hinder. I think these rules were put in place to make sure no one really got better from therapy.
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Luna's offical mini me.
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#532
T I'm in a real mood.
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Magnate
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#533
I want to call you so badly.
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#534
Getting drunk now.
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#535
thanks for squeezing me in your schedule for when you're working next week. I have no idea what I'm going to talk about, though.
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Always in This Twilight
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#536
Dear T,
It took a lot for me to admit that one thing regarding D. I wish I'd said it earlier in session so we could have discussed it more. But we did still have a little time. And it felt like you switched it back over to the other, related topic. When I think I needed to talk about the other aspect. But then, I also wondered if it could potentially hit home for you. And so I wonder if I didn't push it more because of that? Though I'm also not sure how far we could have gotten with it in like the 10 remaining minutes anyway. I feel like I need to discuss it more, but is that what I should really discuss right before Christmas? I don't know. Then again, I'm only going to be missing Friday's session with you and will see you again Monday. So I think it would probably be OK to address that topic with you Wed.? (Knowing that I wouldn't be able to contact you before Monday.) I'll think about it... Love, LT |
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#537
Everything has been turned upside down in the last couple of days. Made a decision which broke my heart and made my family sad. Will now spend Christmas alone. I miss you and want to reach out but I'm going to respect the fact that you are on holiday. I'm kind of struggling right now. Everything hurts and i feel rough.
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Luna's offical mini me.
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#538
17 days without you already. It feels weird.
My youngest sister also dropped out of therapy after doing one session. __________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
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Poohbah
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#539
Between a death in the family and a Facebook pregnancy announcement from my supposed BFF, I am feeling pretty bummed out this week, and of course you're on vacation. Oh well.
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#540
I’m making progress. It still sucks a bit not to see you. I’ve been typing out emails for you but not sending them. My case manager suggested I do that and I told her I already have been and that it’s been helpful. She said that I can keep them or get rid of them or bits of them as I go along. I told her that I like you because you know stuff about me that no one else knows and you are cool and nonjudgmental about these things and that I trust you.
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