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#1
Jan 16, 2008, 07:41 PM
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I agreed to "share" my T with my 23 year old son.. this on my part is a huge.. huge.. huge.. act of generosity... we do not live in the same home.. we do.. not "share" to better our relationship..
tonight.. my son stopped by to say goodbye to my dog.. who I have to put to sleep.. and.. my son just as well might have kicked me... he... is bringing.. his EX.. girlfriend into therapy with him.. and I... mind you I... as in ME... pay all the co-pays...and I am on diasability.. and... she is going in.. because... my son NEEDS fixing.. he is all wrong... they "live" together... and not in relationship live together.. she cheated on him.. has a 2 year old.. and.. he has supported them.. for last year... and now.. the lease is up.. and he is going to do it for another year.. I fell BEtrayed by my T... that he would support this.. I as in ME... will now be paying for HER therapy.. I THINK NOT..... gezzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz what a kick in the butt from my T... and from my T... and... MY son... took Friday off... when I have to put my dog to sleep.. so that he.. can go over to his ex-girlfriends mothers house.. to.. work for her.. gezzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz |
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Jan 16, 2008, 07:52 PM
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Freewill, you call your T and tell him YOU are NOT paying for the ex's therapy!
 The nerve!!! EEEESSSSSSSSSSSSHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!  
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Jan 16, 2008, 09:25 PM
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(((((((Freewill)))))))))
Yes, i agree with Septembermorn on calling your t. And i'm so sorry about your dog. I went through that not long ago with my cat. I send good thoughts your way and soft hugs. love, chal
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Jan 16, 2008, 09:52 PM
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I'm so sorry you're having to have your dog put to sleep. That is so hard!
 Have you told your son how you feel about this and that you choose to not pay the co-pays from now on? Also, I wonder if you'd like your son to go with you to take your dog, maybe he took the day off hoping you'd ask too? |
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#5
Jan 16, 2008, 09:56 PM
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yeah - tell t no way. son and girl should pay their own.
hugs to you around your dog (((((((((!!))))))))))) i had to put my cat to sleep *cries* for you
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Jan 16, 2008, 10:18 PM
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freewill, it sounds like your son and his ex are going for couples therapy. It is very typical that insurance does not cover couples sessions. Check your plan. Most plans only cover therapy if there is only one person present. This is the case for 4 different plans I have had access to. My T, who is a family therapist, has agreed this is his experience--family therapy of any flavor usually not covered.
Your son and his ex will probably just have to pay the full, out of pocket rate if they want to see your T together.
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