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Grand Magnate
Member Since Feb 2017
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#381
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I don't know why that would be considered stalking. It's publicly available. Could she have been joking and you didn't pick up on it? |
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LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty
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Writing my way through...
Member Since Feb 2020
Location: In the desert
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#382
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Thanks. I keep telling myself she was joking, but haven't been able to believe it yet. I hope she was. And thanks for C) especially. Damn complex got me again, didn't it? I'm glad I haven't emailed her about it. I need to just let it go, don't I. |
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LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty
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Writing my way through...
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#383
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Thanks. I'm glad I'm not the only one to do so sometimes. I hope she was joking. I'm trying to believe she was! Because I certainly don't see it that way, especially since it's how I even found her in the beginning. Of all the things she said last week that were helpful, it's this one stupid comment that I latch onto. Ugh. |
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Luna's offical mini me.
Member Since May 2017
Location: Cafe Nervosa.
Posts: 9,700
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#384
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"Repeated and unwanted communications through phone calls, mail, emails, or social media sites. Following the victim to work, school, home, or other places where they frequently visit.Repeatedly sending the victim unwanted gifts. Posting information, or spreading rumors" __________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
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ArtieTheSequal, LonesomeTonight, Quietmind 2
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Poohbah
Member Since Jan 2020
Location: Somewhere I'm working to leave
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#385
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ArtieTheSequal, LonesomeTonight, susannahsays
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Writing my way through...
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Location: In the desert
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#386
Time to head out to physical therapy appt then I need to get some laundry started when I get back, and maybe go to the grocery store so I can do some cooking later today.
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LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty
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Quietmind 2
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Tweaky Dog
Member Since Aug 2011
Location: England
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#387
Sessions that fall on anniversary dates are a double edged sword. It is beyond strange when the words I hear coming from my mouth don't match my felt experience. I know that after fourteen years, I 'should' be doing more than inching towards acceptance, only to be pummelled anew by successive Aprils.
'I believe that Chris wouldn't want me to experience her death as some kind of life sentence.' R: 'I think that's more than a belief. I think you know that, based on your experience with her.' Is it possible for all of these things to be true? As ever, the revelation comes before a scheduled break (just a week). __________________ 'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
ArtieTheSequal, Lemoncake, LonesomeTonight, Mystical_Being, SlumberKitty, WarmFuzzySocks
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Luna's offical mini me.
Member Since May 2017
Location: Cafe Nervosa.
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#388
__________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
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chihirochild
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Writing my way through...
Member Since Feb 2020
Location: In the desert
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#389
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Thank you! I didn't even think to look up the definition. That makes me feel a whole lot better. Thanks QM. She had to have been joking. It makes no sense otherwise. |
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Lemoncake, SlumberKitty
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Quietmind 2
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Luna's offical mini me.
Member Since May 2017
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#390
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I don't think this is a should moment. You need as long as you need Lost. __________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
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LostOnTheTrail, SlumberKitty
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Luna's offical mini me.
Member Since May 2017
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#391
__________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
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LostOnTheTrail, Quietmind 2
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Always in This Twilight
Member Since Feb 2015
Location: US
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#392
Artie, I imagine your T was joking. And if that makes you a stalker, then I am one as well. Though I'm more likely to look at the site where Dr. T has a sports psychology column (including pics of him) because the photo on his professional website doesn't look like him at all.
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ArtieTheSequal, Quietmind 2
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Always in This Twilight
Member Since Feb 2015
Location: US
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#393
So I reinstated my session with Dr. T tomorrow (he confirmed that he put it back on the books). I realized after talking with a friend that I was more likely to regret cancelling the session than to regret keeping it. So...to revive a term that QM used the other day, pocket riders at 1 pm tomorrow are welcome. Note that you'll be in my bedroom, as that's where I meet with T virtually (door to close). Please excuse the mess, and feel free to bring refreshments. Just try not to spill them on the bed.
Last edited by LonesomeTonight; Apr 08, 2021 at 01:28 PM.. Reason: verb tense |
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Luna's offical mini me.
Member Since May 2017
Location: Cafe Nervosa.
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#394
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You'll also need a "don't jump on the bed" sign for Una. __________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
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Grand Magnate
Member Since Jul 2014
Location: Usa
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#395
Art, my kids (and I, because of their repetition) refer to looking at things online as stalking. My oldest said she was "stalking Torrid's website waiting for something to go on sale." I say "I'm stalking the mailman" when I order stuff and check the tracking progress while I anxiously await my package, pray it doesn't get routed through a weird hub, and snatch it off the porch before the porch pirates get to it. My youngest said she was stalking her friend's Instagram for cat pictures.
Maybe it was a joke that fell flat? But you absolutely don't have to beat yourself up for looking at her public profile, so please take it easy on yourself. Sent from my SM-N950U using Tapatalk |
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Grand Magnate
Member Since Jul 2014
Location: Usa
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#396
Thanks for the good thoughts couch. I'm home, work all caught up, and prepared to nap. My daughter feels better already, thank goodness.
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Member
Member Since Oct 2018
Location: the astral plane
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#397
We have a mystery at our house currently. I recently started cross stitching again, and when I’m finished for the time I wrap up my project with the needle in it, still threaded. I opened up my project today and the needle was nowhere to be found. H and I are keeping our shoes on and I hope the cat doesn’t find it first. I’m out until this evening and when I get home there are a couple of other places I thought to search.
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Grand Magnate
Member Since Jun 2018
Location: Somewhere
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#398
My sister used to put needles in this chair at our grandparents' house so that I would sit on them.
__________________ Life is hard. Then you die. Then they throw dirt in your face. -David Gerrold |
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Grand Magnate
Member Since Jun 2018
Location: Somewhere
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#399
Artie, that seems like a careless remark on the part of your therapist. I doubt she considers you an actual stalker.
__________________ Life is hard. Then you die. Then they throw dirt in your face. -David Gerrold |
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Elder Harridan x-hankster
Member Since Jun 2011
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#400
Youre too funny! Im glad it went well. I remember mine. Its like, theres geography there?!
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Lemoncake, SlumberKitty
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chihirochild, Quietmind 2
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