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Poohbah
Member Since Jan 2020
Location: Somewhere I'm working to leave
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#281
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Grand Poohbah
Member Since Feb 2019
Location: Toodlepip
Posts: 1,715
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#282
Being stunned into silence is not a useful response, you idiot. Your question was repulsive. I hate you so hard that my head hurts.
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Legendary Wise Elder
Member Since Jul 2018
Location: CA
Posts: 27,329
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#283
Dear T, you weren't really helpful last night in helping me to manage emotions. And today my emotions feel super big even after I took some alprazolam. I'm having a terribly difficult day. Thinking about chatting on a crisis line but can't decide if I care enough to. I deserve to suffer. Kit
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Legendary Wise Elder
Member Since Jun 2016
Location: Where the sidewalk ends
Posts: 36,235
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#284
Why were you dressed like Mrs. Doubtfire today?
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Tweaky Dog
Member Since Aug 2011
Location: England
Posts: 4,799
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#285
Absolutely OK by me that you replied, QM.
Thank you for sharing your experience with the song. Thank you also for the hugs. __________________ 'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
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Legendary Wise Elder
Member Since Jun 2016
Location: Where the sidewalk ends
Posts: 36,235
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#286
I cannot do remote the entire summer. That is pushing it for me and giving me bad summer 2020 memories. I'm glad you were ok with me not wanting to do it though and said we'd figure out another time to meet in person.
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Member Since Aug 2019
Location: The World
Posts: 278
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#287
Thank you for responding to my email with more detail than the usual ‘lets discuss this in our next session.’
You clearly realised that because we don’t have our usual session tomorrow, I would be worrying and getting myself in to a state so bending your boundaries slightly to stop that happening really means a lot. Although not sure why it would be an issue to send a response like that normally if I’m honest! I think you are finally starting to get a better understanding of me and how my mind works. Last edited by KLL85; May 19, 2022 at 11:30 AM.. |
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Child of a lesser god
Member Since Jun 2015
Location: Tartarus
Posts: 19,150
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#288
It’s weird that people seem to think you’re over the death of a parent in two weeks.
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Writing my way through...
Member Since Feb 2020
Location: In the desert
Posts: 7,239
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#289
Hey L. The drum circle was really fun tonight, I'm so glad you joined. I knew what we'd be doing this week cuz I was there last week, and I almost emailed you to say you should log on tonight! I think I'm going to go to San Diego for that workshop he told us about - just gotta figure out the logistics!!
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Always in This Twilight
Member Since Feb 2015
Location: US
Posts: 20,768
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#290
Dear T,
You're going to announce the return to virtual today, aren't you? (Whether today being the last day or perhaps allowing Monday.) So many headlines mentioning increases in hospitalizations, and the lack of that was part of why you said you felt OK continuing in person. Plus the crazy case numbers in our area right now (which are likely way underreported, with people doing home tests). I don't feel like I could even form an argument right now to attempt to convince you to stay in person, aside from, "Well, I'm sure we'll both be getting Covid sooner or later anyway, so may as well just stay open." Though hoping you'll come up with some sort of metrics that would allow you to reopen. So it's hopefully a more temporary thing, not 7 months like last time, or more than a year the previous time....Maybe this is where the CDC rating for our area would actually be helpful, as it takes both case rates and hospitalizations into account? Maybe if that went back to green from yellow and stayed that way for at least 2 weeks (to show it's not a fluke), say? Even if you intended to wait until after your vacation in early July? It would help me if it felt less arbitrary--and I imagine would make it easier for you as well. Love, LT |
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Legendary Wise Elder
Member Since Jul 2018
Location: CA
Posts: 27,329
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#291
Dear T: you weren't particularly helpful with your text reply, but you know, thanks for getting back to me, anyway. Kit
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Tweaky Dog
Member Since Aug 2011
Location: England
Posts: 4,799
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#292
What scares me about this is the utter wordlessness of it all.
I don't know how to do this, I don't know what I need. __________________ 'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
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Legendary Wise Elder
Member Since Jul 2018
Location: CA
Posts: 27,329
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#293
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Always in This Twilight
Member Since Feb 2015
Location: US
Posts: 20,768
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#294
Dear T,
Well, that sucked. WTF. Why would you say something is OK, then suddenly, like 2 days later, it's annoying? You know my past history with T's... Please be kind in your response to my email. I don't want any more of a rupture than this might already be.... Love, LT PS: I hope you appreciate my NYC metaphor...with the geographical references. PPS: I almost would have preferred that you had announced the return to virtual rather than that.... |
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Always in This Twilight
Member Since Feb 2015
Location: US
Posts: 20,768
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#295
Dear T,
Also, it's totally cheating if you solve Quordle together with your wife. Or at least it doesn't count as an individual solve. Just saying.... --LT |
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Elder Harridan x-hankster
Member Since Jun 2011
Location: Milan/Michigan
Posts: 39,880
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#296
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Member
Member Since Dec 2014
Location: Australia
Posts: 327
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#297
Dear T, thank you for making me feel loved and cared for and for being patient with me in building my trust. Please come back from vacation though because I don’t feel like I can cope through this without you
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Tweaky Dog
Member Since Aug 2011
Location: England
Posts: 4,799
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#298
*insert assorted expletives here*
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Legendary Wise Elder
Member Since Jun 2016
Location: Where the sidewalk ends
Posts: 36,235
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#299
I hate to bring up the age thing again and seem like I'm being dismissive of you because we are the same age and you are so young. But are you capabable of handling a client who has chronic health issues and giving them the support they need while they go through a rough time? I know when I mentioned a particular surgery last year you said it freaked you out. While I get that particular surgery isnt everyones cup of tea, can I expect to have your support for just my health stuff in general? I know with the blood stuff you seemed ok but the last session you were being pretty dismissive and then I literally got a call from my doctor as I was pulling into my driveway. I just want to make sure I'll be getting support from you. Because it doesn't seem like everything is just trans stuff EDs and anxiety anymore.
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Veteran Member
Member Since May 2020
Location: Uk
Posts: 557
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#300
The amount of time I spend thinking about how I used to like my body is ridiculous. Like I will actually just lie awake not sleeping remembering how it was to not be fat, and hate myself for looking this way.
Why can't I just love my body for bringing me my baby, I don't want him to see me hating my body. I am pathetic. |
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