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Old Nov 30, 2022, 07:57 PM
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Welcome to the couch, old and new! A place to hang out - sometimes you get immediate feedback, sometimes you don't.

Shouting, "Cool Whip" tends to bring others out from between the cushions if you're feeling lonely.

This is a chatty thread. All are welcome. We're kind of psychologically oriented, sometimes. We try to be supportive. At times we discuss what that means.

It’s a place to plop down on the couch when you come home from work or wherever, or wake up in the middle of the night, or check in at lunch, rant a bit or not, and be among friends.

We advise you not to drink or drug and text your therapist ("T") - we speak from experience.

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Old Nov 30, 2022, 08:26 PM
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Thanks Una!! I didn't even realize I'd done post 1001 on the old one. Oopsie!
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Old Dec 01, 2022, 04:25 AM
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Old Dec 01, 2022, 11:54 AM
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Looks like I might be taking a trip across country. The breeder wants me to pick up a puppy from out here and take it to her. I've never flown on my own before. I haven't even been on a plane in 25 years. I'm nervous!
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Old Dec 01, 2022, 01:47 PM
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Finally i am starting to feel better, knock on wood! I just organized my chairside table. I was in too much pain to even look at it the past few weeks.
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Old Dec 01, 2022, 07:03 PM
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Finally i am starting to feel better, knock on wood! I just organized my chairside table. I was in too much pain to even look at it the past few weeks.
Glad you are feeling better.
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Old Dec 01, 2022, 08:40 PM
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Finally i am starting to feel better, knock on wood! I just organized my chairside table. I was in too much pain to even look at it the past few weeks.
So sorry you were in pain but it’s great news you feel better. It helps when things are organized too but it’s not an easy task when you hurting
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Old Dec 01, 2022, 08:43 PM
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Finally i am starting to feel better, knock on wood! I just organized my chairside table. I was in too much pain to even look at it the past few weeks.
Glad you're feeling better!
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Old Dec 01, 2022, 08:45 PM
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H just left for a long-distance job to Nevada, someplace called Ft Mojave. It is conveniently not far from Laughlin, NV and he just happens to have a flier from one of the casinos there for 3 free nights this month, so he's going to stay there after the delivery and come home Sunday. Artie has the weekend to herself!!! Any Netflix binging recommendations?
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Old Dec 01, 2022, 09:01 PM
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Have you watched Grace and Frankie?
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Old Dec 01, 2022, 09:06 PM
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Have you watched Grace and Frankie?
I'd forgotten about that one! Yes, I've seen part of it but not all. Thanks for the reminder, I got sidetracked by something else at the time and meant to get back to it but never did. Now is the perfect time.
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Old Dec 01, 2022, 09:06 PM
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Well I just finished my first draft of the poem I started yesterday re: reflecting on the past almost-year post-therapy. I'm going to put it away now for a bit, and get it back out for re-working on 12/17 (the one-year anniversary of my leave-taking). We'll see what happens in a couple weeks or so, whether or not I send it to L.
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Old Dec 01, 2022, 09:12 PM
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Artie is also going to take herself out to breakfast tomorrow morning
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Old Dec 01, 2022, 09:20 PM
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I don't have any Netflix recommendations, but I hope you enjoy your few days to yourself, Artie!
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Old Dec 02, 2022, 12:16 PM
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On Netflix:

I loved the AO, dark, their version of the little prince, all of us are dead is my favourite show now.
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Old Dec 02, 2022, 12:16 PM
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Artie is also going to take herself out to breakfast tomorrow morning
Hope you had a nice breakfast art!
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Old Dec 02, 2022, 12:17 PM
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Well I just finished my first draft of the poem I started yesterday re: reflecting on the past almost-year post-therapy. I'm going to put it away now for a bit, and get it back out for re-working on 12/17 (the one-year anniversary of my leave-taking). We'll see what happens in a couple weeks or so, whether or not I send it to L.
Proud of you artie bean.
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Old Dec 02, 2022, 12:44 PM
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Grief is the most ridiculous thing I have ever been through. It keeps twisting and turning and becoming something that I'm not entirely sure of.
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Old Dec 02, 2022, 01:21 PM
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Grief is the most ridiculous thing I have ever been through. It keeps twisting and turning and becoming something that I'm not entirely sure of.
I hear you. This time of year is a challenge.
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Old Dec 02, 2022, 07:32 PM
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H just left for a long-distance job to Nevada, someplace called Ft Mojave. It is conveniently not far from Laughlin, NV and he just happens to have a flier from one of the casinos there for 3 free nights this month, so he's going to stay there after the delivery and come home Sunday. Artie has the weekend to herself!!! Any Netflix binging recommendations?
The Crown?
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Old Dec 02, 2022, 08:20 PM
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Grief is the most ridiculous thing I have ever been through. It keeps twisting and turning and becoming something that I'm not entirely sure of.

Hugs, Lost....
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Old Dec 02, 2022, 08:42 PM
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Grief is the most ridiculous thing I have ever been through. It keeps twisting and turning and becoming something that I'm not entirely sure of.
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Old Dec 02, 2022, 08:44 PM
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My current project: small afghans (about 18 inches across) for cats, to donate somewhere.
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I've been making hard-boiled eggs in my electric kettle. It works pretty well. But occasionally an egg will crack, the whites will sort of ooze out the crack while it's boiling, and the resulting product looks like some sort of Lovecraftian horror. It's obviously edible. It's a boiled egg. But I have to talk myself into eating it.
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Old Dec 02, 2022, 10:29 PM
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So someone heard about the incident with my colleague and how poorly my chair handled it and reported it to the office in charge of discrimination cases.

Really did not want this to happen. They contacted me and told me they wanted to talk to me. Not sure what to do.

On the one hand it could help because frankly I’m miserable at work over it and have started job hunting again, even though I don’t really want to leave. On the other it could make things so, so much worse.
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