Couch 245: STELLA!

unaluna · Aug 11, 2023 at 10:16 AM

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Una you would be an asset to Dr Nows team. You should see if he’s hiring.

"I like to watch." - Chauncey Gardiner
Peter Sellers in Being There. This was a really huge movie back in my day.

ArtieTheSequal · Aug 11, 2023 at 10:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Lemoncake

Hope you can do something kind for yourself today to help bring you back to equilibrium.

I found this for you which explains things:

Endometrial Biopsy | Johns Hopkins Medicine

Thanks. Some of the stuff in that article my friend who had one told me, I'm glad to see she remembered correctly.

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you know it's going to be unpleasant when they tell you to take a pain reliever 30 minutes before. my friend said it was the worst thing she'd ever experienced. I know that's all relative of course; I'm pretty much 100% it won't be as painful as what I just went through in June. If I have to have one, I'm still gonna ask for a sedative anyway.

ScarletPimpernel · Aug 11, 2023 at 11:10 AM

Artie

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If they're doing the biopsy by going through the cervix... I don't mean to scare you, but that **** hurts! Like your friend, that was the worst pain I've ever experienced. I've had them go through the cervix 3 times. I will never do it again! Definitely take the Ibuprofen. Start the night before and then 30mins before the procedure. Definitely ask for a sedative if they will do that. Now, it is supposed to be easier for women who have had a child already, and people's pain tolerance are different, but just be prepared for it to hurt. Would rather you go in and it be easier than expected than to give you false hope that it will be nothing.

unaluna · Aug 11, 2023 at 12:59 PM

Yeah Earth momma had that 6'4" baby she should be fine!

LonesomeTonight · Aug 11, 2023 at 02:28 PM

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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel

Artie

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If they're doing the biopsy by going through the cervix... I don't mean to scare you, but that **** hurts! Like your friend, that was the worst pain I've ever experienced. I've had them go through the cervix 3 times. I will never do it again! Definitely take the Ibuprofen. Start the night before and then 30mins before the procedure. Definitely ask for a sedative if they will do that. Now, it is supposed to be easier for women who have had a child already, and people's pain tolerance are different, but just be prepared for it to hurt. Would rather you go in and it be easier than expected than to give you false hope that it will be nothing.

I agree with this!

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I also had this done, and it was incredibly painful. And I've had a child, but via C-section, so not, uh, via that area. Gynecologists seem to downplay it, like, "Oh, it's not that bad," but it's pretty painful.

But I also wonder, if they're talking about general anesthesia and blood thinners, if they might be doing more of a regular surgery, going in through the abdomen to biopsy the actual polyp rather than the uterine lining, which I think is what the other test is for? In that case, you'd be under, so wouldn't feel it. I'd definitely clarify what exactly they'll be doing.

ArtieTheSequal · Aug 11, 2023 at 06:35 PM

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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel

Artie

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If they're doing the biopsy by going through the cervix... I don't mean to scare you, but that **** hurts! Like your friend, that was the worst pain I've ever experienced. I've had them go through the cervix 3 times. I will never do it again! Definitely take the Ibuprofen. Start the night before and then 30mins before the procedure. Definitely ask for a sedative if they will do that. Now, it is supposed to be easier for women who have had a child already, and people's pain tolerance are different, but just be prepared for it to hurt. Would rather you go in and it be easier than expected than to give you false hope that it will be nothing.

Thanks for sharing that, Scarlet. I do much prefer to hear actual experiences so I can know what to realistically expect for the exact reason you said.

ArtieTheSequal · Aug 11, 2023 at 06:37 PM

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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight

I agree with this!

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I also had this done, and it was incredibly painful. And I've had a child, but via C-section, so not, uh, via that area. Gynecologists seem to downplay it, like, "Oh, it's not that bad," but it's pretty painful.

But I also wonder, if they're talking about general anesthesia and blood thinners, if they might be doing more of a regular surgery, going in through the abdomen to biopsy the actual polyp rather than the uterine lining, which I think is what the other test is for? In that case, you'd be under, so wouldn't feel it. I'd definitely clarify what exactly they'll be doing.

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Thanks LT. I'm sorry you've had to go through it. I've read other accounts online by googling it and so many people have said it's painful. I hate that they (the dr's) act like it's no big deal. Anyway she's talking about doing two separate things - sorry if I've been confusing. The biopsy is one, that would be done in her office, and then the surgery to remove the polyp is a completely different procedure, that would be a minor surgery done in the hospital and I'd be knocked out for that.

unaluna · Aug 11, 2023 at 08:14 PM

We're not confused. We're not-men. Our pronouns are Kotex, Tampax, and OhShyte!

Tornado warning north of here a good hour, not travelling this way. We had a weird tstorm earlier this afternoon but we did not lose power.

ArtieTheSequal · Aug 11, 2023 at 08:26 PM

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Originally Posted by unaluna

We're not confused. We're not-men. Our pronouns are Kotex, Tampax, and OhShyte!

Tornado warning north of here a good hour, not travelling this way. We had a weird tstorm earlier this afternoon but we did not lose power.

it's just me, una, i know i don't explain things very well sometimes.

i hope your power stays on!

atisketatasket · Aug 11, 2023 at 10:15 PM

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We're not confused. We're not-men. Our pronouns are Kotex, Tampax, and OhShyte!

Now you’re speaking Maltese. I swear x is their most commonly used letter.

unaluna · 10:31 AM

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it's just me, una, i know i don't explain things very well sometimes.

i hope your power stays on!

Sorry, i didnt mean to be rude or cause you distress.
I dont know where that came from last night.

ETA: Catching up on family news: my aunt(in-law) passed last night, so i called my mother's sister to let her know, and we had a nice chat. So now i am looking for excuses not to attend the funeral.

NP_Complete · Aug 12, 2023 at 02:13 PM

My mom is coming for a visit next month and I feel terrible but I don't want her to come. I'm dealing with a bit more depression than usual and the thought of trying to find a place for us to stay and plan activities for while she's here feels impossible.

ChickenNoodleSoup · Aug 12, 2023 at 03:25 PM

Hugs to all of you.

Artie, I hope your surgery goes well, whatever you end up needing to have done!

I went to the street parade today, apparently it's the biggest techno event in the world that happens yearly. It's not really my music, but I got to meet up with a few friends and just be out and about, which is nice.

ArtieTheSequal · Aug 12, 2023 at 04:46 PM

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Hugs to all of you.

Artie, I hope your surgery goes well, whatever you end up needing to have done!

I went to the street parade today, apparently it's the biggest techno event in the world that happens yearly. It's not really my music, but I got to meet up with a few friends and just be out and about, which is nice.

Thanks, CNS. I forgot to update yesterday -

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the hematologist said i should wait 6 months before he will okay my going off the Xarelto for 2 days before the surgery; he said if I have to have the biopsy, it would be okay for me to go off of it for one day prior to that. I left a message yesterday letting the gyno know. so we'll see when I hear back from her, what my next step will be.

LonesomeTonight · Aug 12, 2023 at 06:42 PM

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Thanks, CNS. I forgot to update yesterday -

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the hematologist said i should wait 6 months before he will okay my going off the Xarelto for 2 days before the surgery; he said if I have to have the biopsy, it would be okay for me to go off of it for one day prior to that. I left a message yesterday letting the gyno know. so we'll see when I hear back from her, what my next step will be.

Hugs, Artie. Hopefully you can have that test soon.

ArtieTheSequal · Aug 12, 2023 at 09:00 PM

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Hugs, Artie. Hopefully you can have that test soon.

Thanks LT. It would be good to get it over with sooner rather than later, because of how unpleasant I know it's going to be; more definitive information than what I have now, and all that...

ArtieTheSequal · Aug 12, 2023 at 09:03 PM

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Sorry, i didnt mean to be rude or cause you distress.
I dont know where that came from last night.

ETA: Catching up on family news: my aunt(in-law) passed last night, so i called my mother's sister to let her know, and we had a nice chat. So now i am looking for excuses not to attend the funeral.

No harm, it's all good. I didn't take it as you being rude or anything. I felt bad because I thought I was the one who sounded that way.

I'm sorry to hear about your aunt in law.

ArtieTheSequal · Aug 13, 2023 at 10:22 AM

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Originally Posted by unaluna

Yeah Earth momma had that 6'4" baby she should be fine!

haha! nah, he was only a 2' baby. he's closer to 6'8" now though!!

unaluna · Aug 13, 2023 at 10:50 AM

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Originally Posted by ArtieTheSequal

haha! nah, he was only a 2' baby. he's closer to 6'8" now though!!

I kinda thought i was shorting him!

Lemoncake · Aug 13, 2023 at 11:56 AM

Sorry about your aunt Una, even if you weren't close.

You could say you have an appointment that day.

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unaluna Elder Harridan x-hankster Member Since Jun 2011 Location: Milan/Michigan Posts: 40,932 (SuperPoster!) 13 68.8k hugs given	Aug 11, 2023 at 12:59 PM #204 Yeah Earth momma had that 6'4" baby she should be fine!

unaluna Elder Harridan x-hankster Member Since Jun 2011 Location: Milan/Michigan Posts: 40,932 (SuperPoster!) 13 68.8k hugs given	Aug 11, 2023 at 08:14 PM #208 We're not confused. We're not-men. Our pronouns are Kotex, Tampax, and OhShyte! Tornado warning north of here a good hour, not travelling this way. We had a weird tstorm earlier this afternoon but we did not lose power.

NP_Complete Grand Magnate Member Since Feb 2017 Location: the upside down Posts: 3,874 7 6,408 hugs given	Aug 12, 2023 at 02:13 PM #212 My mom is coming for a visit next month and I feel terrible but I don't want her to come. I'm dealing with a bit more depression than usual and the thought of trying to find a place for us to stay and plan activities for while she's here feels impossible.

ChickenNoodleSoup Grand Poohbah Member Since Apr 2017 Location: In a land far far away Posts: 1,648 7 1,336 hugs given	Aug 12, 2023 at 03:25 PM #213 Hugs to all of you. Artie, I hope your surgery goes well, whatever you end up needing to have done! I went to the street parade today, apparently it's the biggest techno event in the world that happens yearly. It's not really my music, but I got to meet up with a few friends and just be out and about, which is nice.

Lemoncake Roses are falling. Member Since May 2017 Location: Seattle. Posts: 9,948 (SuperPoster!) 7 10.5k hugs given	Aug 13, 2023 at 11:56 AM #220 Sorry about your aunt Una, even if you weren't close. You could say you have an appointment that day. __________________